Samantha - posted on 05/02/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )
I am having the hardest time with the question, "Do you have any children?". I want to claim both my boys, but when other questions are asked about them I can only speak of my surviving son. When I am forced to mention that my youngest twin passed away it makes for a very awkward situation. But when I go to mention just having one son I feel that I am not acknowledging the angel baby. I want to avoid the awkward moments and the "pity party" image, but it breaks my heart to not mention both my boys. Any thoughts? I really need some advice on this. How do you all deal with it?