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Death Of a Twin

LONETTE - posted on 04/14/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I had twin boys on June 18, 2009 born 18 minutes apart. My first son Nikari died 3 days later on fathers day, this was the hardest thing i have ever had to deal with in my life. I still cry every day especially when i see his brother playing and doing what he does it hurts my heart because i wish for his brother to be here with us.



I had his body cremated and some nights i sleep with his urn in the bed with me because although he is in a better place i don't want him to feel as if i have forgotten about him or that i do not love him is this normal?

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Andrea - posted on 04/16/2010

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It is sooo normal! My twin boys were born April 2, 2009 and my angel Aaron died 2 days later. Even after a year I have the same feelings I did when he died. I always include him when we do things...for my son Ethan's first birthday we had a balloon release to say happy birthday to Aaron as well. I wish you much comfort as I know the pain will never go away.

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