has anyone had an ectopic pregnancy and sucessfully got pregnant again ??

Kalicia - posted on 05/07/2013

i woke up to pain thought it was gas.went to work had cold sweats hot hair was wet.almost past out several times.call doc serious pain.they come in i said i will when i get off from work.9hrs. later made it to doc pain off the chart now. check me.give me a shot for pain. call husband to pick me up.doc sent me to hosiptal for test.ultrasound ctscan.thinking maybe ovary or append...2hours later admitted to hosiptal.next day explore surgery.found liter of blood in belly.had ectopic pregnacy that ruptured. removed right ovary and right fallipon tube also some of my uterus.6weeks ago. now i have pain on left side

Leonie - posted on 05/02/2013

I recently had an ectopic pregnancy and doctor had to remove my left tube and part of my left ovary. Doctor told me that I could have more kids
Already have a beautiful daughter, 7 years old. Have been trying to have another one since 2009 but failed with 4 miscarriages and now had the ectopic pregnancy. I know God has a plan with every one and all will work out.
How long must we wait to try again or what will our best options be (IV)?
Thank you for all the inspirational stories.

Sarah - posted on 04/30/2013

Hi My name is SArah. I got an Emergency operation last Nov. 30, 2012. My Right Ovaries was raptured and the doctors do the best thing they need to do. Actually, according to my ob-gyn my heart stops beating for three times. After 5 months I got a positive sign from my HSG. Too bad I feel my stenches is being pulled like they we are being stretched. Please help from any advice's...

April - posted on 04/29/2013

We have been trying for four years to get pregnant and it finally happened! But at 7 weeks we started bleeding and found out that the baby was in my tube:-( we had it taken out and lost both the tube and our little peanut....... My doc said I am at higher risk of having another one because my tubes are stuck together any words to help us. We really want to start our family :-)

Jess - posted on 04/27/2013

Hello we have been trying to get pregnant for 2 years now. I found out that I was 7 weeks pregnant two weeks ago. Last week we also found out it was an ectopic pregnancy. I went in for an ultrasound because of pain and heavy bleeding and it showed that there was blood in my abdomen so I was rushed in for emergency surgery three days ago. They removed my left tube and the pregnancy so right now I'm still in a lot of pain. Doctor said it would be like this for 3 weeks. This was such a scare and disappointment that I don't even know if we should try again later on.

Susan - posted on 03/26/2013

I have a 5 year old daughter and just had an ectopic pregnancy 1/27/13 at 7 weeks pregnant. I did MTX shots first on the 25th and then my tube ruptured and I had surgery and my left tube removed 1/27. We have not yet tried to conceive again. Because of the methotrexate shots, we were advised to wait 6 months so all the chemical could be filtered from my body. I was told that getting pregnant again is very possible and that isn't really the issue. You do have a higher chance of having another ectopic pregnancy. If I remember correctly, having it happen in the first place (unless you have risk factors like previous STD, injury or surgery), is 4%. After an ectopic, your chances in crease to 10-15%. If you have your tube removed, you are still at higher risk than the average person, but not quite as high as if you'd kept the tube because of possible scar tissue that may remain. I truly hope we will be able to have another child. We've had 1 miscarriage and now the ectopic. Good luck to all those out there trying to conceive, and I'm so very sorry for your losses. I know exactly how painful and emotional it is. As for those of you who posted you had unprotected sex a few weeks later - wow! You healed faster than I did! I could barely have sex after 4 weeks. I stayed very swollen and was extremely sore for several weeks. Now, 9 weeks later, I'm still not comfortably wearing jeans. I guess each person is different. It's definitely taken me a while to heal. I just must be slow.

Letty - posted on 03/26/2013

On 2/7/13.. I was told I had an ectopic pregnancy and was given the shot to stop the process..im already high risk as it is and not very fertile, I really want another child,but thankful that I have the two that I got. I still feel a little pain on my left side im scared that it may still have to be removed although as the docter says im out of the danger zone..i was told I have to wait 6months to try and conceive again but im scared it may happen again. Has anyone went on to conceive after having an ectopic pregnancy and went on to have a healthy pregnancy...I need words of encouragement
I have had a still born at six months and now an ectopic pregnancy

Grace - posted on 03/17/2013

Hi my name is Jennifer. I had 2 ectopic pregnancies. The first was unsuccessfully treated with methotrexate and I still wound up having my rigt then removed. The next was 7 months later and given the previous attempt at methotrexate, they decided to remove it with surgery. It took 4 years all in all but we conceived on our fifth round of ivf. We had a healthy bay girl. 7 months later, I was pregnant again. On my own. I now have two beautiful baby girls 3 and 4 years old. I feel so blessed and want to share that even though it may not be medically possible, all things are possible with god. He totally has my back :) hope that helps.

Divinity - posted on 03/08/2013

Thank you Claire..All the best with your pregnancy darl, hopefully you wont need to have your tube removed. But yes I'm going to make a appointment to see my GP for what I can do to conceive with the 1 damaged tube I have left. Fanx for sharing your story Claire.. Take it easy..

Claire - posted on 03/07/2013

hi my name is claire, I had an ectopic pregnancy on the 1/1/13 whilst I was already 12 weeks pregnant. Im still pregnant with my first child I'm 20 wks and 6 days along. I'm sure it is positive to get pregnant again, just ask your GP :)

I was lucky and havent had to have my tube removed. Probably wont get done until I give birth to my baby in july this year but there is chances that it will get removed afterwards.
Im not 100% sure of the chances of getting pregnant again after ectopic pregnancies, but Im sure that it is possible. Just keep positive and ask your GP if you're concerned.

Im sorry Im not much of help as this is my first pregnancy.

Divinity - posted on 02/23/2013

Hi my name is Vinity i have a similar question too.. in 2009 i gave birth to my beautiful son who is now 3yrs old and then in 2011 i had 2 ectopic pregnancies, had my 1st ectopic January 2011 had surgery to have my right tube removed & my 2nd ectopic December 2011 but i had the methotrexate treatment but my left tube is damaged. i was wondering if anyone has had same situation as me but later on had a successful pregnancy?? jus really wana knw because its been over a year now & we are TTC.. hollar bak anyone thanx

Tracey - posted on 02/07/2013

hi i had an eptopic about 7mths ago and had my right tube removed, iv just recently found out im pregnant. i have to admit im scared of it happenning again. so it is possible to get pregnant.

Erin - posted on 01/30/2013

Hello, I had one of my tubes removed in july 2010. I have one child who is now six years old but have nnot had another child or pregnancy since the ectopic. Does this mean something is wrong. My doctor tells me that i am still able to have children but i just don't see it. My husband and i have been married for 3 years and he does not have any children of his own and i love the fact that he treats my daughter as if she is his but its hard knowing that he wants children and we're are trying but nothingis happening. Should i see a specialist ?

Ana Maria - posted on 01/26/2013

Thanks a lot Laurie ,stories like this give me hope

Laurie - posted on 01/26/2013

I had an ectopic pregnancy after my second child. I was 10 weeks along, the fallopian tube ruptured on the left side and I had it removed. I have conceived several times since then and have had 6 more good pregnancies in spite of endometriosis that resulted from the hemorrhage.

Ana Maria - posted on 01/26/2013

Hi I'm Ana and a have had 2 ectopic surgeries in one year first I lost my left side tube the second I got the Methrotaxate shot,I'm so scared because we have tried again after 6 months,and now I have bleeding and dark spots,lower abdominal cramps,I don't know what to do anymore I'm so disparate to have babies,I'm reading your stories girls and somehow see hope out there,please help me with some advice or stories

Ana Maria - posted on 01/26/2013

Hi my name is Ana and I'm 32 years old,I'm new to this forum,and I,m seeking for info and help from anyone who is kind in of ,I have had two ectopic surgeries,in one year in 2012 one in December,then they have removed my Fallopian tube on the left side,at the second ectopic ,I have had the Methrotaxate shot,I'm so desperate to become a mom,we have tried again in jan 2013,but is seems to me that I have again the same symptoms for ectopic, bleeding,dark blood spots cramps in the. Lower abdomen or I'm so confused ,if anyone have been experienced the same ,pls let me know. Thank you

Jessica P - posted on 01/25/2013

Hi ladies. Just wondering has anyone experienced a SCAR ECTOPIC pregnancy, (baby getting stuck on c-section scar) i have preciously had one, and am now possibly pregnant again, im very nervous as i would hate to have it happen all of again! Has anyone had a scar ectopic and then had a normal pregnancy after?

Allison - posted on 01/21/2013

Hi everyone, I tried to concieve for 3 years and fell pregnant around christmas it was never a joyous pregnancy as I bleed when I found out was told threatened miscarriage took levels for 2 weeks only to find out it was ectopic last Tuesday. I had the methotrexate injection that day but just found out that even though the mass was a little bit smaller my levels were still rising. The doctor told me to decide between another shot or surgery. I'm not sure how much more of this I can handle. The feeling of will i be ok is this the right choice along with so many other emotions can i ever have the baby I've so longed for? My dream in life was to be a mom that's what I wanted and to know that the only thing I've ever wanted might not happen kills me. My husband also wants children very bad and he would be the best dad. He's been so supportive but I feel I'm punishing him by him being with me I feel I am taking away from his life. This is so hard I don't know if if I'm strong enough deal with this. I have found comfort in others story's and to know I'm not alone. Please pray for me I need all I can get. I will pray for you is well.

Chelsea - posted on 01/19/2013

I might be a little late on this one but here goes. I got married on September 1st, 2012, got my Mirena removed September 14th, was pregnant by September 28th, and found out it was ectopic by November 12th. The doctor discovered that the fetus was in my ovary, rarely enough, and because it was so large I ended up losing my ovary as well. The doctor told me to wait two cycles before trying to conceive again. Found out today that I am pregnant again :) Women with one tube are in better shape than women with one ovary. If I can get pregnant again then so can you

Joanna - posted on 01/12/2013

Can anyone relate to this? I had surgery to remove an ectopic on NYE... they removed the pregnancy but not the tube as they discovered the other one was also damaged and i have not had any children yet. 9 days post op HCG levels were rising so I was called in to get a methotrexate shot the next day (yesterday). I seemed fine after, if a little spaced out and he Consultant had told me that if I have any pain above level 7 (on 1-10 scale), they need to know about it.
Well this afternoon i had cramping again, around my right side just as before the surgery... and lower cervical pain, discomfort going to the toilet (no.2 ... sorry tmi)... I tend to get these symptoms sometimes during my period as my cervix seems to point backwards at that time toward my colon...!) so it's not entirely pain I haven't experienced before.
Generally I am a little puffed out from the way it catches me but its not completely constant.
I have read that some pain is to be expected but so confused as to what is normal?
Could the tube still rupture from the cells trying to grow even through they took the main part of the pregnancy out 10 days ago?

Also, I have to admit that up until today I have not been very good at taking it easy... went back to work a week after getting out of hospital... and straight away after the metho shot... I teach Gymnastics and it's only a few hours a night so i though it would be okay s long as I didn't lift anything heavy...

Anyone had any similar experience? I can't find any information on what to expect from having surgery AND then a Methotrexate shot?

Hailey - posted on 01/11/2013

I had an ectopic pregnancy in November 2009 and I fell pregnant in August 2008 with my son Jamie. Who is now coming up to 4 yrs old. I had my right Fallopian tube removed and still have a beautiful boy afterwards there is always hope. Unfortunately over the last week I have been tested for another ectopic pregnancy as my hcg levels are only rising by 45% I still have hope as my scan showed a sac today although empty I am being rescanned next Friday. Best wishes

Melanie Paloma - posted on 12/26/2012

has anyone had an ectopic pregnancy and sucessfully got pregnant again ??

Stacey - posted on 12/08/2012

Yes and i had a tube removed after 2 ectopic pregnancies in the same tube i now have a beautiful 11yr old daughter

Sophia - posted on 12/04/2012

hi pia im new hear i have ectopic last october 2012 my left tube removed after 4 weeks of surgery i get my period in nov. after 6 weeks of sugery i had dr. appointment and she said everythings is ok my right tube is good but after my period we try again and now im on my 2 weeks wait 6 days before my expected period i have frequent urinating headache burf alot cramping this start on my 8 days post ovulation could i be pregnant this fast i hate this 2 weeks wait i appreciate ur comments thanks....

Torreika - posted on 11/24/2012

Hi im Torreika i jus recently had a tubal pregnancy oct/23/12 which lead to surgery && removal of my left tube . i was hospitalize for 4 days and then went home i had unprotected sex 2 weeks after surgery and i kno im very fertile could i be pregnant again ? Only been feeling really tired

Roxanne - posted on 11/04/2012

i no it was not me but my aunt had 1 with twins she lost a tube with the babies and has 6 kids now

Roxanne - posted on 11/04/2012

i no it was not me but my aunt had 1 with twins she lost a tube with the babies and has 6 kids now

MARIA - posted on 11/02/2012

HI MY NAME IS MARIA I HAD A ECTOPIC PREGNANCY 2 AN HALF YEARS AGO AN UP TO NOW I HAVEN BEEN ABLE TO GET PREGNANT I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW ANYTHING ANY-ONE WOULD LIKE TO GIVE ME SOME ADVICE OR SOMETHING THAT WOULD WORK FOR ME PLEASE AN THANK U

Stacey - posted on 10/26/2012

Hi, I was told I wldnt naturally conceive with unexplained infertility , so I stopped thinking about it and got pregnant! Unfortunately it was a suspected ectopic, fortunately I didn't have to have my tube removed, I then went onto have my little girl the following year, and then in 2010 I got pregnant again but didn't realise as I had bin bleeding heavily for 3 weeks, but I did feel pregnant, I had several scans and hcg bloodtests which confirmed I was having an ectopic, the hospital kept me in and gave me methotrexate to try and discard of the pregnancy without losing my tube, a few days later I had a large loss and my hcg had gone from 6000 to 816 so we presumed it had worked, I continued with bloodtests every other day and on the Tuesday morning ( 5 weeks after I started bleeding-approx 10 pregnant ) I collapsed in agony , I cldnt stand, or see, an ambulance came and initially the rest was a blur, my blood pressure was extremely low, and I had 3 litres of blood in uterus, how I am still here I really don't know! For some reason my body was tellin the hospital that the methotrexate had dun it's job however as I had internal bleeding, the readings were somehow wrong, I obviously had emergency surgery to remove the ruptured tube and suffered deppression for a while due to the trauma, I'm now accepting of it and am on my 1st month Clomid, hoping that my last try will b a positive experience xx

Alicia - posted on 10/23/2012

Did you havea period right aftr having tube removed? I just had my tube rupture do to eptopic and hd emergenc6 surgery because I was bleedng inside.. yesterday was my frst day home but today being the second I am in more pain and I am bleeding. Doc said I should only spot..just curious on other peoples recoverys

Sarah Anne - posted on 09/26/2012

Thank you!



Well from what the doctor explained to me you should wait 6 weeks to have intercourse or anything in your vagina such as tampons, douching etc as to not disturb the healing process and so that you do not introduce new germs into the vagina as your surgery wounds are healing. I freaked out after my surgery because not only did I have an ectopic but things didnt feel right and as it turned out I also had an std that was curable but thankfully I was treated for it and am fine now. My now ex that got me pregnant was unaware of the std that he had and I was not happy in the slightest about any of it especially after I went through everything with the ectopic pregnancy. I kept bleeding after the surgery and something just did not feel right so that is how I discovered I had chlamydia from my now ex. I am just happy that I decided to get tested for stds after my surgery. I advice any woman to get tested for everything just in case after a surgery like this in order to heal properly. If there is any doubt about an std it is in everyones best interest to just get checked. It is better to be safe.

Kiara - posted on 09/25/2012

Hi Sarah,



Goodluck! Isnt the easiest of things to go through!

Why is it that one has to wait 6 weeks to have intercourse?

I am going for my post op check up on Wed. Hoping that it is good news!

Still in a bit of pain after the op...

Sarah Anne - posted on 09/24/2012

I had an ectopic pregnancy on august 7th and I was over 8 weeks along which caused my left fallopian tube to rupture. I had surgery to stop the bleeding and to remove my left fallopian tube. I had over a liter of blood in my abdomen and was bleeding to death internally so the gynocological surgeon didn't waste much time after they found out it was an ectopic pregnancy. I never even knew I was pregnant since I had been getting my periods regularly. I found out I was pregnant shortly after I drove myself to the ER from the extreme pain I had been experiencing for about two days in my whole abdomen. I waited 6 weeks to have intercourse after the surgery and have since gotten my first regular menstral cycle. I was not sure if I would ovulate since all of the trauma to my body. Before I had my ectopic pregnancy I could actually feel when I ovulated. I thought that I may be ovulating this week and have had intercourse. I have read that some women can get pregnant again right away and others have a longer period of time to wait. I would love to be pregnant again but I am concerned about only having one fallopian tube and if I were to get pregnant having another ectopic pregnancy. It is all quite scary but I am hoping to be able to have a normal pregnancy soon.

Kiara - posted on 09/17/2012

Goodluck! You are truly blessed to have your pigeon pair soon! :)

I never thought I would ever be the one to experience the loss of a baby...especially when it was unplanned and I didnt know.

Havign felt this loss only makes me realise that having a baby is the one thing I have been missing to complete me...complete us.

I know having a baby with my partner is something he would love as we have spoken abt this...

POSTIVE THOUGHTS is what I need to have! :)

Jessica - posted on 09/17/2012

Sounds awesome! After Charlie we waited like i said in my prior post 4 years to try again, and it only took 6 weeks.....as soon as i stopped the pill i got my period, had one more and then was pregnant! Even I got a little down about it taking 2 periods LOL I can't imagine what other women deal with and feel blessed! I will have one of each soon! Only 14 weeks to go!

Kiara - posted on 09/17/2012

Thanks Jessica,



Has helped to chat to you! *hugs*

Going to take it day by day. Start working on dealing with this emotionally and rid myself of the stress...

And deal with this with my partner.

Him and I both lost a baby....its only fair.

Hopefully soon, I will be able to post and let u know Im pregnant again and all is well! :)

Jessica - posted on 09/17/2012

You never "get over" it. You will always remember :( my due date was February 14th, 2008. I remember every Valentine's Day, and I still cry sometimes. You have to be positive though, my husband always reminds me, "if you had had that baby we wouldn't have Charlotte" her bday is 04/17/2008 :) It makes me feel better, but you never get over the loss, it was your baby. I think talking about it will help you heal, and sharing it with your partner will help too. He's the only other person who can even closely understand your pain. And talking about it will hopefully lead to you two deciding to try again!

Kiara - posted on 09/17/2012

Thanks for the speedy response. I was in such shock and pain at the time that when the doctor came to see me, I herd him speak but it never registered. A friend was with me. She says he managed to save the left tube but I herad him say he had to remove it and my right side is perfect to conceive... awaiting my doctors check up next week to get the full and correct story.

I have stitches removed tomorrow.

I am definitely thinking about telling him...

Worst was that I researched what it looked like at weeks in a normal preg. and an ectopic...

This past week has been awful. Going through phases of crying, anger, etc.

Jessica - posted on 09/17/2012

I'm so sorry for your loss :( But you shouldn't feel the burden alone. My (now husband) was in complete shock when we found out I was pregnant I mean he never said he didn't want it but I could tell he was freaked out as we had only been living together a few months dating only a few more before that......well he was there for me, he has this "it'll be what it will be" kind of attitude. Well we weren't trying to get pregnant again, but as soon as we found out about it he was over the moon happy....he told everyone before I could. So I would definately tell him about what happened he can be your shoulder to cry on, and it may make him ready to have a baby too. Just be prepared to be stuck over and over and over again and have many ultrasounds!!! Even for baby #2 and #3 , I had to have 5 blood tests over a 2 week period...until i was 7 weeks and they could do ultrasound after ultrasound to make sure he was in the right spot! I was never told I had to wait 2 cycles I only ever had the one right after surgery.....and they never made a big deal out of getting pregnant so fast again......bc I lost my left tube I only ovulate successfully every other month. Did you lose the tube? They may be saying that because you may not ovulate this cycle and the next one you can't bc the tube is gone....so then the next one you could....just depends on your body....mine freaked out a bit in fact when i found out i was pregnant again I was only like 7 days pregnant and like 6 days late....so i ovulated REALLY late in my cycle. Babies really are miracles :) I wish you so much luck!!!!!!!

Kiara - posted on 09/17/2012

Hi Jessica,



I came across this website by chance and your response to this question has made my burden slightly easier to carry.

3 months ago I had surgery for a tumour on my ovary. It was removed and all clear. Whilst overseas I began bleeding and I started experiencing severe pains. I assumed that I probably just exerted my body too much and it was stress, etc.

Got back and had two scans done which did not pick up anything.

I did two pregnancy tests and both were positive. Saw my doc last Monday and was admitted for an emergency laparoscopy for an ectopic pregnancy. I was 8 weeks.

Most difficult part of this all is that I had only just found out I was pregnant before being told that it had to be aborted... We never planned to get pregnant and this was my first pregnancy.

I havent told my partner. Just feel like I am at fault for losing the baby and dont want to cause him pain...

At the same time, the fact that I have lost a pregnancy makes me want to get pregnant again very soon. And I have been reading and seeing that it is advised to wait 2 cycles.

Im glad to have read your fate n luck. :)

It must give you some comfort after the traumatic experience.

I know that, right now, I am going through alot of emotional heartache and pray that I too will overcome this soon...

Jessica - posted on 08/23/2012

Hi, I was really worried about this too, I was devastated but my finance (now husband) didn't understand why I was so upset he has this no nonsense sort of approach to life like if it happens it happens. Well we weren't trying to get pregnant when I found out, I was told at 6 weeks I had a miscarriage. Ten days later I was having pains that progressively got worse until I collapsed at work, couldn't stop throwing up which caused more pains. My husband took me to the e.r. where it took them 4 hours to tell me I was internally bleeding and had been for 2 days....I was rushed into surgery, lost my left tube and was kept overnight. Worst thing I have ever gone through. At my 6 week post op check up they did regular bloodwork to make sure hcg levels were down and found out I was pregnant AGAIN! This time it was in my uterus and I now have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. We decided to try again in Feb. of this year, in April I found out I was pregnant AGAIN after only 6 weeks of trying! I am now 5 months pregnant with a little boy! So it will happen again for anyone with a history of ectopic, just be patient and have FAITH!!!!

Gwendolyn - posted on 08/21/2012

Hi Ashley! Your husband is right, try not to be worried. It took my husband and I a year to get pregnant again. We started trying after six months per the doctor's orders. Six months later I'd had enough of trying and stopped. In a matter of weeks following that time I knew I was pregnant. We now have a nonstop soon to be two year old daughter running around as the result of our efforts. God is good and He will allow it to happen at the right time. I had to come to that realization before it happened for me. Thank Him that you have your life, because you could have lost it. Also cherish your twins and your husband. They are your foundation right now. Many blessings to your family.

Gwen

Ashley - posted on 08/21/2012

I have twin boys who are 4. 6 months ago I had a ectopic pregnancy that resulted in me loosing a tube, we have been trying and so far no luck can it really take this long to get pregnant again. My other pregnancies happened with such ease. I have to say I'm a little scarred my spouse tells me there is nothing to worry about

Darcy - posted on 06/18/2012

Thanks Gwen, we decided to try this month, i feel im ok at first i wasnt but now i have that baby fever again!!!!! Hope everything goes well this month!!! Ty

Gwendolyn - posted on 06/17/2012

Hi Darsy, sorry to hear of your loss. Don't give up on having another baby. You may have to give your body time to heal from the ordeal. Keep your spirits up about your future and try not to dwell on what has just happened. take care of yourself and don't stop trying.

Gwen

Darcy - posted on 06/17/2012

hey ladies in january me and my other half decided to try for the first time, got pregnant in a week, i knew i was pregnant so on the 1st 0f feb i tested got a faint positive tested 2 more times thru the day got darker lines went to get it confirmed got my insurance started to bleed the next day, went to the ER they said they didnt see anything on the ultra sound did blood work my levels were 31.....they said i wasnt pregnant and if i was i misscarried, lost hope, 2 weeks later i was still lightly bleeding decided to make an ob app to find out why, my levels were 9000, the next day started to hurt real bad like pain that dropped me to my knees almost passed out and it would happen every few hours, my doc said my cervix was high and closed and the bleeding was prob old blood, still having pain my ob set me up with an ultra sound, at the ultra sound the tech told my husband how to turn on the monitor and when she said to turn it on he was to do so, so she never did had me dress back and told me to stay by my phone my nurse would call me, in 5 mins my nurse called said to be in the office at 1130 am and not to eat anything after 6 am, sounded like surgery talk, went in and my ob rushed me back to surgery, its now been 4 months and im rdy to try again im just scared im not going to ovulate properly does anyone have any advice? i have only 1 child he is 12 and we want one more it would have been my husbands first, my second, but i really want another shot at mommy hood, my baby is not a baby anymore, and it kills me that our pregnancy turned out wrong....

Granzo - posted on 06/08/2012

thank you Gwen.
at least i am not alone. i know one day it will happen for us. it just came as a shock for me but as time goes by my spirit will heal. i will keep on communicating with other mothers to learn more. hopefully very soon i will be able to say im pregnant again.

Gwendolyn - posted on 06/08/2012

Hi Amber, sorry it took so long to respond. I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Be strong in faith that you will conceive again. It took about a year after the first conception and ectopic before I got pregnant again. Give your body time to heal and rest. Take care and remember to keep the faith.

Gwen

Gwendolyn - posted on 06/08/2012

Hi G_kenos! I'm glad you decided to open up. I'm here to tell you that one year after getting pregnant and having the ectopic I got pregnant again. My daughter was born healthy and whole. The pregnancy was healthy as well. Keep your spirits up and try not to think much about what has happened. God is good. The doctors told me we could start trying again after six months. We did, but it wasn't until we stopped trying that we conceived. Just take care of yourself and it will happen.

Gwen