Couple recieves 2.9 million for wrongful birth

Katherine - posted on 03/12/2012 ( 11 moms have responded )

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We take a lot of tests during pregnancy to ensure that our babies are healthy. Sometimes, a positive outcome on certain tests, like the one for Down Syndrome, might cause some couples to abort the baby rather than face a life of disability. An Oregon couple said they would have done just that had they’d known that their daughter would be born with Down Syndrome. But after being assured by their doctor that the baby was free of the genetic disease, they went on with the pregnancy, and their daughter was born with Down Syndrome 4 years ago. After suing Legacy Health System, Ariel and Deborah Levy were recently awarded $2.9 million in a “wrongful birth” suit.



The couple says they clearly would never have had this child if they knew, and now they will use the money to help care for their daughter’s special needs. This type of case going to trial is rare, partly because of the repercussions of parents testifying that they would have aborted their child if they had known (and you can just imagine the long-term mental damage that testimony might do to a child as he/she grows up). Here is how The Oregonian sums it up:



Experts say so few parents choose to file wrongful birth suits because it forces them to take an awkward position: They must be willing to say on the record that they would have aborted the pregnancy, and that they feel a burden – albeit financial – of raising the child.



But where does that leave the countless other parents who are (many happily) raising their special needs child? Should every parent who has a child with Down Syndrome be entitled to a few million because doctors should have caught the disease during pregnancy?



There is still speculation on both sides as to why this error occurred. The couple says that maternal tissue was sampled instead of fetal tissue producing a false negative result in the chorionic villus sampling (CVS). Legacy’s attorney, Robert Keating, maintains that the CVS was properly done, and that “the results showed the girl has a normal genetic profile because she has mosiac Down syndrome, meaning a significant number of her cells don’t contain an extra 21st chromosome.”



I’m a big believer in giving people the benefit of the doubt because you can’t know for sure what anyone is thinking or know exactly what you’d do if you were in their circumstance. I also know how quickly stories get spun to generate media ratings, so I don’t think any of us can say for sure what actually happened. And we shouldn’t judge.



However, I honestly do feel that by instantly equating a diagnosis of Down Syndrome with a need to abort a pregnancy is a terrible thing. There are countless babies, children and adults living full and productive lives with Down Syndrome. Of course, we wouldn’t wish a disease on anyone, especially our own children. I can’t say that it’s right to abort a baby just because he/she has a birth defect with a clear conscience. Statistics show that it has become common practice to abort Downs babies based on prenatal testing.



The decision to keep a pregnancy in the case of Down syndrome is a personal one. When it was offered to me, I declined it because I knew that no matter what, my baby was with me for the long haul. I told my midwife that the results wouldn’t matter because I was having my baby anyway. Had he been born with Down syndrome, I wouldn’t have regretted having him. I know kids and adults, beautiful human beings, who are living with Down syndrome and have very full, engaged lives. Strollerderby’s Julie Miner summed up what I was thinking when she wrote: “If Stephen Hawking’s mother lived in Fairfax County, Virginia, in 2012 and had a bunch of prenatal testing – perhaps there would have been no Stephen Hawking. People’s abilities are so subjective but the contributions they make to humanity, their community, their family? Limitless. As if ANY prenatal test could possibly measure that.” Well said.



While Hawking’s health issues were not a result of a birth defect, who is really to say what someone can accomplish despite differing health circumstances? Actor Chris Burke, who played Corky on the series Life Goes On is perhaps the most well known face of Down Syndrome; yet for every Chris Burke, there are countless others with Downs who also lead very engaging lives, hold a job and get married.



There are many myths regarding the disease that perpetuate the dilemma, like people with downs have a short life expectancy, are unemployable, will never marry, etc… These myths, and more are all disputed by the National Down Syndrome Society.



I don’t begrudge the couple receiving the money to help care for their daughter; I just wish every family that had a special needs child could receive the same. Or better yet design a healthcare system in which every child (including special needs children) is entitled to every therapy and service he/she needs. Of course, that won’t happen any time soon, and there are countless families struggling just to hold on to their jobs needed to support their families and care for their special child at the same time.



What do you think? Should this couple have received the money? Should babies with Down Syndrome be aborted as a common practice? Are we playing judge, jury and executioner by deciding who has the right to live or not?







No they should NOT have gotten the money! No babies with Down's should NOT be aborted, how cruel. And the last question? Yes we are.



How could someone be so intolerant of a special needs child and flat out say, if it showed up as Down's ,"We would have aborted."

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Mother - posted on 03/27/2012

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Some people don't have what it takes to look after a special needs child. Whether you believe in abortion or not, it was a viable option. However, they have their child now and they probably do love her. Its a horrible way they received the money.....I wish provisions were in place that every special needs child got enough money to look after them indefinitely.

Carrie - posted on 03/26/2012

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I think it is terrible that they say they love a child that they would have KILLED if they had known she wasn't going to be "Perfect' !! , I think it is contradictory. Downs Syndrome children are very special. Yes, they may need special care and extra care but it isn't as bad as some OTHER Birth defects.

Katherine - posted on 03/24/2012

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Well said Sherry!

Danielle - posted on 03/21/2012

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Danielle - posted on 03/21/2012

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The only testing I allowed while I was pregnant with my daughter was a feral echo. This was because I have a hole in my heart, and we wanted a prepared delivery. I didn't care, whatever I got I got. I was lucky enough, with a septated uterus to be having my daughter. If they didn't want a special needs child, maybe they didn't really want a child at all. God blesses you with whatever he sees fit FOR YOU.

Sherry - posted on 03/21/2012

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"I don’t begrudge the couple receiving the money to help care for their daughter; I just wish every family that had a special needs child could receive the same. Or better yet design a healthcare system in which every child (including special needs children)" What lala land do you think we live in? Government should take care of every child with special needs??.... Socialism! WE could return to the practices of the 40 and 50's and turn them over to asylums to rot in stupor? Families need to realize with every action there is a reaction. You screw, you procreate! Babies are our future. Take care of your own and don’t look to someone else to do it for you. Regarding the topic….. Doctors are not magicians, foreseers or even God they are practitioners , providing a health service with no guarantee of outcome. This law suit reminds me of the stupid “McDonald’s Hot Coffee “ suit. My mother use to say “play with fire and you will get burnt”. Coffee is hot….. sex is hot…. babies are a expensive chore …… deal with it. You might learn to love them! (tongue in cheek gals!)

Kara - posted on 03/20/2012

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Babies are precious gifts from God! They should not be aborted for any reason! Abortion is terrible and I don't believe that there is any reason that anyone should ever consider it. How can there ever be a good reason to kill a baby?

Peggy - posted on 03/19/2012

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I am a mother of 2. And let me tell you. When you decide to have a baby, it is your decision to take on that baby whether they are healthy or not. I think it is sickening that they actually admitted that they would have aborted her and then the lawyer has the audacity to say they love her. Really? Love starts from the day you know you are pregnant (as a mother). My question is if they didn't want a baby with down syndrome then why not adopt her out to someone who has the money and time and love to give to a child like that? Why did it take them 4 years to file a lawsuit? It seems shady to me and those parents should be slapped for what they said about that baby! Greed is a sin, period.

Susan - posted on 03/19/2012

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Nothing says "I love you" like a lawsuit from parents who wish their child was never born.

Mother - posted on 03/17/2012

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I never had any tests done when I was pregnant. I knew whatever the outcome I was keeping my baby. However, if I was to get pregnant at this much later age I think I would have the tests and very well may abort if the tests came back saying the baby was going to be disabled. Some may think that is wrong but who is going to look after this child when I'm gone? I also don't want to spend my "golden years" caring for an adult child for the rest of my days.

Brittney - posted on 03/17/2012

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The reason people would have aborted for having Down's is because the child will depend on them forever, the child will take special schooling and all sorts of things that most people cannot afford. My husband thinks that if the baby has a disease that causes them to be challenged (my apologies for the wording) then they should not live....I do not think anyone should get money for something like that. They could have aborted just because, too. Are they going to get money years later if they had wanted to keep the baby?



I have a story...My sister was 16 when she got pregnant, she carried the baby to term and found out later, he had a mental and physical challenge. She tried to take care of him but she could not. She put him up for adoption (semi open) and a nice family took him in, they sent her pictures and letters and then one day started to accuse her of doing something to make him that way. They went to all the doctors looking for answers, they finally found one doctor that told them it was the birth mothers fault. They accused and accused and she tried to prove, but since he was 4 years old, she couldn't prove that she hadn't used drugs. She had her doctor tell them test results were negative for any drug use and it became one big battle. Eventually they moved away and stopped contacting her. She never would have aborted knowing he would have been through so much. She hopes one day, he will find her and forgive her.