Discrimination Amongst the IR Culture.

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How many of you have not only faced discrimination from those who are oppose IR altogether, but also from other IR couples.



ex. the BMWW (Black Man, White Woman) one or both of the pair are opposed to seeing WMBW (White Man, Black Woman) together.

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I'm sure some of the BM making the comments have had some IR experience, and it is frustrating for them to question your motives.

It is about the love, not how he is classified by American standards. It is obvious he is Korean or of Asian decent and you are Black, why should anyone bring it up as if you don't know that?! lol

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♏*PHOENIX*♏ - posted on 08/07/2010

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I have yet to face discrimination in the IR circle…the discrimination comes from black men though…if they don’t give me looks like “WTF is she doing with the asian man! Then some have said..”Can he handle all that! (in the bed room) or what’s wrong with your brothers?! You don’t love us anymore…..

The thing is I do indeed love the brothas….i very much appreciate a fine brotha when I see one, but I love who im with…..

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I have experienced the example at times from just one of the pair or both. Sometimes those, who may not be boo'd up (in a relationship currently), but for the most part only date outside of their race. For some reason I have found that some do NOT like seeing the opposite.



Like I discussed in my article "Sista You Can Always Come Back" there are a lot of BM who have been misled, mostly by WW, that WM are not well endowed nor good lovers. They also fear that the BW are finding happiness with these WM. On the other hand there are some WW, who get jealous, even though they typically only date BM, they question "what does he see in her".



Not saying ALL BMWW think this way, but there are a # out there who do!



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