Amber - posted on 02/16/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )
Ok my son is 13 months and I went back to work when he was 10 weeks. He has been with my mom while I work since then. I pay my mom $700 a month to care for him and it is only 18 days a month if I don't take off any work since I work a flexible schedule. Well now my mom is doing so many things for other people that she says it is too stressful although this is the only source of income she has she lives with my sister who pays the mortgage, but my pays everything else so that is fine she just won't have any money to pay the bills. Now my problem is daycare should I go with a home daycare or a facility? My son has been spoiled he only falls asleep when rocked to sleep and wakes up easily with other noises so I know he won't sleep well in daycare. I do not want him left to cry it out at all. He likes playing with other kids so that would be good but the thought is killing me. I honestly think I am going to go to the dr. and get on anti depressants just to get through this. Does anyone have any opinions on which would be better?