Ever had a neg pregnancy test during your missed period and really been pregnant?

Jessie - posted on 03/31/2011 ( 406 moms have responded )

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I FEEL pregnant. I am 4 days late and have had two negative home pregnancy tests. I have been feeling tired and queesy for over a week. At first I thought perhaps the mono I had in november creeping back up on me. Then I realized my period was late, I took a test it was negative.The next day I started having cramps so I thought ok it's on its way. Today I still have some cramps and am still queesy off and on. Took another test, negative. We have a 20 month old son, but I didn't not take a test with him until about 5.5 weeks along. With him I was also tired and crampy, bloated for over a week past my expected period I just kept thinking it was on its way because of the cramps, so I delayed taking a test.
Do you think it's possible that I am and it just didn't show up yet? A friend of mine said this happened to her so I am a little concerned

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Shruti - posted on 06/28/2013

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I m confused . I am 7 days late and have one negative home pregnancy test, I have been feeling tired and sleepy in morning for over a week.. Some kind of abdominal pain or something may be like cramps nt sure bt last for few mins . and some brown tissue like i had on 7th day. IS this preg or wat???

Tati - posted on 05/18/2013

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Hello my name is Tatiana and I'm a lil concerned with my menstrual..In the month of march I got my myenstrual around the 17.. 2months before than I had been getting it around the 14-17.. No problem.. But now I still haven't gotten y period..and don't remember the exact date I got it last month.. Could it be possible that I'm prego?? I took 2 hpts first was negative n the second one fell in the toilet with the cap on so I'm not sure I it can get water damaged but nothing didn't show in the control window?? What should I do

Renee - posted on 05/03/2013

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Hi, i have read these posts and most are helpful. Here's my situation- i had irregular periods until i had my first child 1-6-12. after having her i have had regular periods every 28-30days until now. i had my last period march 18th its now May 2nd and nothing. Im feeling nausea all the time. Ive done home (pee) tests every week since my missed period in April....all say negative. What do you think? Ive had some back pain and nausea nothing else. I even took one this morning May 3rd and still negative.

Nancy - posted on 05/01/2013

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Hi. Girls im nancy im 18 young "! Yes. Im i need so much help omge so me and my bf had unprocted sex and i took plan b 2 days after and a week later i went to get the depo shot my first one '! But u know how u have to have proctected sex before those 7days well me n my hubby we did the 2nd day unproctected but he never came in i juss wanna if is still effective?:/ . Help pliss and i got my period a month after and now i beeing light bleeding but not enough to cover. All the tampon and is about to go 2 weeks im so concerned ugh my bf has came in me all thiss week we being doing in it n last week message asap'!! Girl at nancyramirez230@gmail.com. i have been buying pregnancy test they come out negative lastweek i took one and it came out negative but the color was so faded /: pliss helpp girlys

Carla - posted on 03/21/2013

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i just went to planned parenthood today and my urine test came up negative. i took two a month before but it was also negative. i havent had my period since november 28 2012 and i last had sex december 9th. so it's been almost four months. also i am irregular and when im about to get it, i usually get cramps and tender breasts but for four months ive had no period symptoms. anyone have something similar? i also weigh 9 pounds more than i did four months ago.

Jessie - posted on 03/21/2013

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so to update i called my doctor and even though it has been 9 weeks she said it still could have been too early and to take another test and use fmu and if still negative to come in for a blood test will keep you updated so even if you don't go see the doctor call them just to let them know what is going on!!

Jessie - posted on 03/20/2013

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I too am going through it but I'm at least 9 weeks lat 2 neg tests been really gassy tired and feeling a little weird in my belly but not the nausea like I did with my daughter called my Dr to let her know what's going on hoping to get an answer

Anthea De - posted on 03/20/2013

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yes I was pregnant and the home test showed negative - I went to a doc who confirmed that I am pregnant :)

Liz - posted on 02/10/2013

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Yes that happen to me but I took another test and it came out positive but the next day I started to feel movement and fluuters have an appointment for next week do you think I'm more ahead than what I think

Lizz - posted on 02/05/2013

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I think I may be pregnant, i've missed my period for quite a while and have taken 5 tests (all negative). I've picked up irregular eating and sleeping patterns, I've also had nausea and bloating. I've also been very relaxed about it i haven't been stressed and I'm not an athlete...my last period was the 26th of Dec.

Sonia - posted on 02/02/2013

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Hi yes happened to me on my first pregnancy and actually happened again before I miscarried one and one .just last week. Always the cheap home tests yes it definately happens lol

Britney - posted on 01/30/2013

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Wow that's scary /: I don't feel it but I do have cramps here and there not as bad as my regular ones are as if I were to get my period and I gained 3 lbs since last week I've been dieting and been going to the gym so I really don't know what's going on /:

Erin - posted on 01/30/2013

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i would wait another week and if ur still feeling queesy and more tired than normal than i would take another test and if it comes up negative wait one more week and make a drs appt

Erin - posted on 01/30/2013

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Britney you could be pregnant i would wait another week and take one again if u havent started your period if it is still negative and you still think you might be pregnant i would make an appt with a dr i had 7 tests come up negative with my oldest daughter and i was really pregnant. do you feel like you u have the symptoms of being pregnant

Britney - posted on 01/30/2013

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I'm 7 days late on my period I've taken 3 test all 3 say they are negative can I be pregnant ? Am I taking them to early? Should I go to the dr ? I NEED HELP PLEASE!!!SOME ONE ?

Elbony - posted on 01/29/2013

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I have had two late periods the cycle for December was 4 days late and when it finally came it was light...the cycle for January is now two days late...Im nervous TTC but took a test last month that was negative. I'm wondering if I should schedule an appointment.

Aisha S - posted on 01/22/2013

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Am also having this problem, my period comes for 4months now and they are all spotting i.e not up to 2days or for some hours and then its stops. I did the test and it turns up negative. So i dont even know if am pregnant or not. Best of luck.

Destiny - posted on 01/22/2013

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Need help!!!! So i havent started my period since november i been gettn sharp pains really bad back pains and one positive test and then all negative after that my lower stomache is so hard i feel like im going to start my period but i havent its almost feb what do i do the doctors say no to a blood test..

Destiny - posted on 01/22/2013

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I have not started my period since november and i took a home pregnancy test it was positive then i started getting negative and i went to planned parent hood and it was negative i told them do a blood test they straight up said no so now im stuck waiting its now jan almost feb. I never go this lobg with out a period i been having bad back aches sharp stomache pains my breast are in pain i cant lay on my back for to long what is rong with me some one help am i pregnant everyone doesnt want to help and the only way to find out is wait and i smoke ciggeretes i been taking night quil cus im sick im scared.....

Safia - posted on 01/21/2013

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wow it seems we are sailing in the same boat me i am late with three weeks and i have tested negative twice i have severe heart burn, my breast are sore and mouth test bitter , i have decided to be patience and wait for the out come i am tired of dissapointment

Suzy - posted on 01/15/2013

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I have taken 2 pregnancy tests and both have a faint second line. So faint I feel as tho I am seeing things. So I went to buy a digital to be sure and it said negative. I have also heard with a digital your levels hve to be above 50 to get a positive. I have no idea what to think. My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for 3 months and this is the first period I hve ever missed! Please help!

Danielle - posted on 01/13/2013

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So here's my situation. I have a 6 month & 11 day old daughter. She was born July 1st 2012. We are trying to conceive again. I am breast feeding exclusively since day one. My actual period can on November 23rd for about a week long. When december hit no period came. I felt some stuff come out thinking it was my period and each time I check it wasn't. I was freaking out. I have stomach pains, not feeling good, and get irritated. Now it's January and still no period. I keep feelin stuff gush out but it's not blood just liquid. When I lay down sometimes I swear I can feel a heart beat or a lil kick. I know I'm not dreaming. I've taken about 20 home pregnancy test and they all show up negative. I know I am pregnant but the test won't show. In November before I had my period I took a blood test to be sure and negative. Now it's 3 months from there and I have a strong feeling I can. Can I be pregnant?

Nancy - posted on 01/08/2013

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my last period was nov 16 the first test i took was possitive. i went to the dr and it came out negative..i had spotting and cramping. so i took another test and it came out negative..my back hurts what do i do am i pregnant.. has any one ever had this ..please help

Alicia - posted on 01/08/2013

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Im having the same thing right now..cramping liek im going to start now for 3 days then itll just stop. im 5 days late and 2 neg tests...my sons 13 mo

Portia - posted on 01/08/2013

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Hey y'all ii am 8days late ... ii did have sex last month and he didn't pull out no period took 4 pregnancy test wa shud ii do

Melanie - posted on 01/07/2013

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I posted on this thread some time ago and I just wanted to write a conclusion. After having missed my ladies time for 3 months and being convinced I was pregnant with next to all symptoms of pregnancy I was in fact not pregnant. The Ultrasound didn't turn up anything at all - everything was good. So I had blood tests to see what was going on and was advised that I was anemic. Turned out all the symptoms were from the anemia. I am now on multi-vitamins and extra iron tablets. I still have not yet had a ladies time so I have missed for 4 months now. So I guess missing a ladies time could simply be your body telling you that something is not right... Good Luck to All!!!!

Tori - posted on 01/06/2013

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I am 3days late for my period, have done one test in the afternoon negative result. I am exhausted, no children already. Read it's good to check the cervix position. What do people think? X

Ann Marie - posted on 01/03/2013

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I would go see a doctor just to be sure. I would also ask them to do a test by blood

Destiney - posted on 01/02/2013

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i have been having unprotected sex, i did last weekend, the same night i took 2 pregnancy tests both said positive, the next morning i took another one and it also said positive. but i have also gotten 2 negatives, i get sick at night and i havent had a peroid yet could it be a false positive?

Chloe - posted on 12/21/2012

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Hi I am going through the same as some of you... I have three kids and have been ttc my fourth baby since October I had a period november 6th and ain't had another one since... I have been getting cramps and discharge and I was convinced my periods on its way but still no period!!! Been feeling nausea since today aswell...I have done two pregnancy tests today both are negative!!! I am irregular though but I never pass 42 days of my cycle and now it's day 45... I'm confused what could it be?

Taneisha - posted on 12/20/2012

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hey i new round here and i was wondering i ain't see my period going for two months and i having cramps what happened

Kylene - posted on 12/17/2012

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The first day of my last period was Oct 30th. I am now 16 days late and have taken about 6 tests...all neg. Nausea started today. Have been cramping on and off for 2 weeks...sometimes its so bad I think my period is here but there is nothing. Tired & dizzy spells like I had with my son 8 years ago. I scheduled for a blood test this Thursday and the nurse basically told me it was a waste of time but "will do one if it makes me happy." So angry at them. She said she was sure it probably just an anovulatory cycle and shed be happy to just rx meds to jump start my period via phone! Not even check me. I have had 2 previous miscarriages so im not too happy with them.

Jennifer - posted on 12/17/2012

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I had a regular period on November 8th.... having been trying to conceive all year (had a miscarriage at 5weeks in March 2012).

Started another period Dec. 3rd (right on schedule, I cycle like clockwork) but this one was not really normal, it was heavy & lasted a day or two longer than usual... so I said to myself, nope... not this month. I was a little bummed because I really, really thought I was preggars... I saw what I thought was implantation bleeding & even had a couple of days with morning sickness & one day I was so dizzy it put me in bed for 3hrs!

My breasts are always tender down the outsides 3-4 days before Aunt Flow visits & ALWAYS subsides the day of or 2nd day of her visit... this time the soreness came earlier than usual & did not go away but actually increased. My lower belly became bloated, my breasts actually got larger & I was tired-tired-tired.

So on Monday, Dec. 10, 2012 I just decided I'd take a home test... it was negative.

Breast tenderness/enlarging & bloating belly continued & so I tested again yesterday (Dec. 16) it was positive! Faint, but yet it was there... so I will test again Wed. the 19th and have an appointment to see my doctor. I have been spotting yesterday & today & it is a very dark color & only enough to see it on the toilet paper (I'm becoming a TP Inspector!)

I am 44 & this will be my first child. I am filled with gratitude & am incredibly happy :)

So, in my case (and I have read of many others that are similar) not only did I test negative, but I also had a heavy period since time of conception... anything really is possible when it comes to our bodies, conception & how our bodies react.

Brittany Snow - posted on 12/12/2012

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the same thing with me but im only 16 and i dont have a baby i took 2 an im 5 days late

Tetia - posted on 12/09/2012

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Wow...I am amazed at how many women are going through the same thing that I am going through!!! I was supposed to come on my period around the first week of December. So lets go back some first. About around the time of Thanksgiving I had intercourse. Maybe a week afterward I got nauseous and had diarrhea. I thought I may have had food poison. I was find the next night but the night after had the same issue. So the nausea came and went but I didn't think anything of it. Now my breasts usually hurt before my period but this time they were so excruciating I could hardly shower. I started to cramp and I was like ok my period was on the way. Low and behold no period. So the time that I am supposed to be on my period I have cramp like issues but not totally feeling like my period, and no period. I keep rushing to the bathroom when I feel crampy but no luck! (By the way I am always on time!!!) I have nausea, and back pain. And I will be a week late tomorrow. I took 2 preg tests and both came back negative. One I took directly when I woke up and no signs of pregnancy. I know my body though and I know that something is happening!! I guess I will do like most of you and just go get a blood test to totally confirm. So aggravating when you don't know.

Averil - posted on 12/08/2012

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See another doctor and ask for a blood test. This is amazing. Home test kits a very accurate unless its too early to test. I had a false negative and then a week later a positive. So don't waste anymore money on these tests. Go an see a proper doctor who cares!!!!!!! A blood test is the most accurate.

Rebecca - posted on 12/08/2012

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It was about 4 or 5 days and 7 tests before I got a positive. Buy different brands :)

Lara - posted on 12/07/2012

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oh yeah, so it was August 20th that happened and I was suppose to have my period at the end of August but never did, same with September, October and November. I bled a bit in November but I've heard that's normal during pregnancy. but still negative... which is strange... like very. I have to be about 3 months and a half.. almost 4. and it kicks me.. the hardest kick was when I was talking to the dad.. and he's 5 hours away and still talking about getting back together and where we'll raise the baby. I told this doctor and he said, if it's negative you're not pregnant and I said, well yeah but it's still possible and he said you are not pregnant! and he doesn't seem like a good doctor. also he's foreign. I don't know if that has anything to do with his lack of knowledge to know that there's a low percentage of women who have low hpt and most of them get their pregnancy confirmed through ultrasound!! anyways, wish me luck!!! My family and my ex bf's (soon to be bf again) family are excited and happy and some of them don't wanna get their hopes up.. but I know there's a baby in there... I know it, cause I feel a HUGE difference in my body, I feel a bulge, I feel tightened up, I feel the flutters/nudges and I'm not crazy!!! lol

Lara - posted on 12/07/2012

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I don't even have any kids and my bf got out of jail.. he was in there for driving a stolen car drunk LOL anywho just saying he's not a hardcore criminal. and yeah we only had sex once. we used a condom.. and I haven't had my period for over 3 whole months.. I took a home pregnancy test, negative! and I took one at the doctor's, negative.. I went to another doctor's.. negative! same with the blood test. and so I waited a few weeks. and in those few weeks I started to feel movement! I felt a kick.. and I know it was gas or poop either LOL so I started to do my research, it is possible to have various pregnancy tests, home and from the doctor's, including blood tests!! so it's possible.. I still feel movement and kicking. usually I feel them when I'm laying down in a quiet position or when I'm in sitting position... it moves and kicks. so I'm like 15 weeks. I went to the doctor 5 days ago or 4, and the test was still negative.. I could be just one of those few woman who have low hpt.. I've been eating super healthy!!! and I've already experienced some bloating when I was 8 weeks.. I know I'm pregnant.. I'm just waiting until I could have an ultra sound... :) when I see a baby, I'm gonna say, "I knew it!!! & I knew I'm not crazy!!!" haha... I wonder who else went through this who has a kid with the same experience ?

Desiree - posted on 12/06/2012

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hello, ladies So my period is estimated 8 days late today no really signs of pregnancy so to say tried yes Nasus ones in a while .. very early rarely...no bloating no breast difference..n 3 negative home test (clear blue) ......so idk it has been 7yrs since my last pregnancy..on the date of my period I.did have cramping n well discharge which was not normal for me at all..i have also came to.the conclusion that I have Pcos I do have a few signs....so confused ....can someone help ?

Autumn - posted on 12/06/2012

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My cycle is 28 days every month for the past 3 months.. i just got off on birth control in aug.. and now my period was due dec 4 and it still hasnt come. I took a pg test on the day my period was due,it was negative. then waited almost 2 days after and negative also. My period still hasnt come yet.. i been crying all the time, feeling hungry, and cramping and bloating.. when do you think i should wait to test again?..

Haley - posted on 12/06/2012

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Thank you! Im trying not to stress about it. but its so nerve wrecking wondering if I am or if im not. My blood type is RH negative. So i require getting that special shot. has anyone else had this same problem?

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@Haley S.: Yes, you might be. No guarantee, but maybe. ... Just try to sit tight and calm and wait for the blood result. Its abit nerve-wracking,...but youll be fine. :)

Haley - posted on 12/05/2012

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I need some advice please. Ok well back in April I got pregnant then ended up having a miscarriage in May. Oct 23 was my last real period. I was suppose to start my period Nov. 21 and instead on Nov. 20 when I went and used the bathroom I noticed a little light pink reddish spot on the toilet paper. It wasnt there everytime I used the restroom. just off and on for three days along with some brown looking discharge. I took two pregnancy test this past Friday and one was a light positive and the other was clearly positive. my doctors appointment was the following monday. I took a test right before I went and it was negative. I took my two positive test and that neg. with me to the doctor. the doctor comfirmed that those did say positive but when he gave me a test his said neg. they drew blood and sent it off to do a blood preg. test. Im currently waiting on those results right now. What could this mean. this would be mine and my husbands first child. Im just so confused on why those would say positive but the others didnt. could this still mean its a chance i could be pregnant? someone please help me

Melanie - posted on 12/04/2012

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Hi Samantha, Still no AF and no + POAS for me.I am booked in for an internal ultrasound next week. Will let everyone know as soon as I know.

Samantha - posted on 12/03/2012

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Melanie I have been waiting for your results I have the same symptoms as you except this will be my first child if I am. I am sooooo crampy. I'm usually a really happy person but my emotions have hit an extreme. I cry everyday like today I cried cause my husband slammed the door. My boobs hurt worse then they ever have as Well as my back all test show negative and if my calculations are right I should be six weeks. I have never in my life missed or been late on ANY of my periods they even start at the same time each month. So to say I'm almost a week and a half late is strange my husband think I'm crazy but I think he is in denial cause he is about to deploy. So I need to know am I crazy? Lol I have an appointment Thursday but I'm so impatient.

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Hi 16girl,

No judgment being made, but if the chance is you may be pregnant I hope you took n STD check at the same time as the pregnancy test, If you bled for 3-4 days and one was at least heavy I would suggest waiting 3 weeks before testing again. And do a blood test as well as urine. Good luck and all the best.

16girl - posted on 12/02/2012

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okay so i have a question.

in october i had unprotected sex several times over one weekend (dont judge)

i had taken a pregnancy test 2 weeks later exactly, it came up negative , i was then 2 days late for my period .. but i thought that could just mean anything . now i have been having pregnancy like symtoms,

-constipation- its reallly unusual for me to have to go several times a day and thats exactly what has bbeen happening sometime i feel like i have to really bad then its only a little it has sorta been diahorrea..(hahah embarressing)

-Fatigue/Tiredness

-Backaches- have deffinetly been a major thing

-Rib pain- aslo a big thing but i assume that would be from having to shit all the time

- Smell Sensitivity

- i dont know if this is one either but i play sports and i'm usually the go go go person but i have been so tired and after one drill in practice i feel exhausted. and i got some pretty bad heart pain too ,

Even though the test said negative could i still be pregnant. and the last time before i got my recent period it lasted for 8 days and it was heavy the whole way through then this time it was on/off it was only kind of bad for one day and it lasted for 3-4 days . so im sort of worried

Melanie - posted on 11/30/2012

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Hi Nikki,



Menopause at your age would be considered early menopause so although not impossible it is not likely. All you can really do is wait and keep testing or see your doctor for a blood test to confirm remembering that even the doctors tests could come back negative and so you would need to wait and keep testing yourself anyway. Honestly in my personal opinion I really wouldn't worry too much until you missed your second AF in a row. Even my Doctor said missing two AF's in a row is not normal and requires investigation. Good Luck!!!

Nikki - posted on 11/30/2012

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I need help too!! I'm 42 years old. My period is always, always on time, 27 or 28 day cycle max. This month I am 5 days late with no sign of AF coming at all. I always have sore breasts for 5-7 days before and this month, nothing. Usually I have light spotting a couple days before and this month, nothing. Two weeks ago I had a stomach bug, or so I thought. Nauseated and diarrhea for 5 days in a row. Now I have no pregnancy symptoms and no PMS symptoms either. I've taken 3 tests, all negative. I have had mild cramping, that's about it. Here's the other thing, the last time we had sex, it was the first day of my period. I know that it's near impossible that I am pregnant, but I'm just not sure what's going on. I think I'm too young for menopause to be starting. What can be going on? Any suggestions on what I should do? Thanks so much in advance for your responses!!

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