Is nudity ok with a teen age son?

Kate - posted on 11/26/2011 ( 12 moms have responded )

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I have sons aged 12 and 16.As my elder son who is 16 is very close to me we dont mind being naked around.We even have bath together on weekends.As both of us have clean mind there's nothing sexual about between us.Is this normal or do i have to start covering up?
Thanks.

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Aniesha - posted on 11/28/2011

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I don't think he's going to go through withdrawls from not seeing you nude somehow. Just stop! That doesn't mean stop showing affection, but it is definitely disturbing and could even be considered abuse what you are doing. There are healthy ways to show love without nudity! The only way that nudity should come with showing love is when you're making love to your partner/husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/etc, NOT with your kids.

Rachel - posted on 11/30/2011

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ok this is going to sound mean but are you kidding me... ewwwww



once again that is just gross. That is something he needs to fuigure out on his own. he is almost an adult he needs to fuigure things out by him self.

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Kate - posted on 12/01/2011

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oh common guys its not a fake one.I am just very disturbed.So i wanted to ask you this question.Plz i am very serious on this.

Cathy - posted on 12/01/2011

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I agree with Jen, this "Kate" person is TOTALLY pulling a fast one....KATE is a FAKE

Jen - posted on 11/30/2011

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Omg people, I can't believe you're giving serious answers!!! I mean, I guess, good for you just in case but this is so obviously someone's twisted idea of fun - posting on a site filled with caring, wonderful people just to see how far they can take it! I wonder if it's a fake ID or if someone hacked their friend/mom's account!!!!! For me the first clue was, why would this be posted in the June 2007 babies forum if her sons are 12 and 16?

Aniesha - posted on 11/30/2011

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I agree with Rachel, that is just wayyyy to much! I'm starting to think that you're actually having us on here, I can't believe that someone can actually have that unhealthy a relationship with their son and flaunt it. Get the both of you into some serious therapy immediately. Masturbation is not something a Mother teaches her son!! Next minute you'll be asking if we think you should have sex with him cause he's asking questions and you want to help him out.

Kate - posted on 11/30/2011

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Rachel and aniesha i need ur help again.when i started to cover up my son started asking questions about masturbation and is asking me how to masturbate.should hold his penis and teach him how to do it before its too late or just leave him like that??plz help...He's just not letting me go....

Kate - posted on 11/28/2011

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But Aniesha after all he is my dear son.How can i deny not being nude suddenly after being so close for so many years.Plz give me some tips.

Aniesha - posted on 11/26/2011

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That sounds very wrong to me, and I think the covering up should have started long ago. I know we want to hold onto our babies for as long as possible, but that's really taking it too far in my opinion.

It can also give him a twisted perception of what is alright in a relationship with a girlfriend. I know I would just be freaked out at the thought of my boyfriend still bathing with his mother at that age!!!

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