Rachelle - posted on 12/24/2009 ( 27 moms have responded )
The father of my child drives me NUTS! We just can't seem to agree on anything and are always fighting. I was thinking about leaving him and have some concerns. Like for example who is he going to have around my child? When he finds another girlfriend is she going to treat my son right,? Is he going to just randomly leave him with people so he can go party? How did anyone get over these? I dont want to take his son away from him, i know he loves him, but one cause of our problems i that i also know he loves to party and i think sometimes would like to just forget he has a son. Also another concern of mine, and it may seem..selfish??..is ever being with another man. Children are a big responsiblity, and there are very few men out there willing to take on a woman with a child. Did anyone else feel this way?? Im so confused, it's been 6mth since i had my son, and nothing has changed. I live with my father and am going to school, in a town i didnt grow up in , so i don't know a lot of people. SO in kicking him out i won't have a babysitter to watch my son as i go to school. I know that sounds terrible but it's the only way i can give my son a good life. Advice would be much appreciated.