Do you give up?

Barb - posted on 11/13/2011 ( 30 moms have responded )

3,372

15

Do you ever read posts on here and get to the third page and just give up on the poster?

Do you ever ask yourself "why am i wasting my time reading 3 pages of this garble when she isn't listening to anyone, why would she listen to me?"

Or do you wonder, "she isn't going to like what i have to say, so i'm just not going to say it"?

Do you just give up on people sometimes?

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms

30 Comments

View replies by

Tah - posted on 11/16/2011

7,412

22

i didn't even start reading it, i just worked all night and dont think i have the energy required to start..maybe after my class this morning and a nap..lol

Barb - posted on 11/16/2011

3,372

15

LOL Emma, good point on the drama and yes Tah, i was thinking "why would everyone think this is funny?" But what really scared me was the 7 pages of people telling her how to LEGALLY and Permanently keep the father from having a relationship with his child. That really saddened me for the child's sake.

Tah - posted on 11/16/2011

7,412

22

okay..the fact that 15 people clicked the funny button on the OP lets you know what the general consensus is on it..lol

Stifler's - posted on 11/15/2011

15,141

154

She is just your average spurned woman who because the father is over her it automatically makes him a bad parent and shouldn't be allowed in their kids life.

Stifler's - posted on 11/15/2011

15,141

154

Just the OP make my eyes glaze over with the grammar. If it involved the word drama it's usually the OPs own fault.

Barb - posted on 11/15/2011

3,372

15

I read some threads and fear for the next generation.

What do you think of this one Marina? http://www.circleofmoms.com/welcome-to-c...

Oh, and get yourself some plastic out so it won't make a huge mess when your head explodes

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/15/2011

16,826

8

I prefer being dramatically sarcastic.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/15/2011

16,826

8

Oh I know how, but if I am being a bitch, I own that shit.

♏*PHOENIX*♏ - posted on 11/15/2011

4,454

6

You know how to be nasty nice' as Tah calls it...waaay better then me.



Sometimes I just want to say, " you are a dumb bitch" or "find a 100 ft cliff and jump off" lmbo >:-)

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/15/2011

16,826

8

It is very liberating E, I recommend doing it :)

Stifler's - posted on 11/15/2011

15,141

154

I just want to tell people they are a fuck sometimes.

♏*PHOENIX*♏ - posted on 11/15/2011

4,454

6

I get tired of being nasty nice...I just want to be nasty sometimes! Lol

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/15/2011

16,826

8

See Tah, I know who you are talking about without even looking. I don't like that bullshit nice/nasty crap. Because I will call your ass out on it, and then you don't have the balls to own it....just say bullshit like "Oh no, I wasn't talking to YOU" shit or the ever instigating line "I wasn't talking to you but you must have done something wrong for you to THINK I was talking to you" Or when they are called on it, they become all friendly with you and you both make up. Fucking hate that fake ass shit. I am telling it like it is, and fuck you if you don't like it. Don't play games with me, and act all innocent.

Tah - posted on 11/15/2011

7,412

22

GALLEGOS..where have you been?..well i have totally missed that about you...pissing people off, not you...i just can't believe it.....see Ebby, that is saying something in a nice way that you know isn't true...lol

~♥Little Miss - posted on 11/15/2011

16,826

8

I don't learn my lesson. i talk until I am blue in the face. The posters that really piss me off are the ones that post that only want you to agree with them...then when you don't they throw a bloody fit. Actually, they piss me off, but I have the most fun with them. I won't stop, and it ticks people off. :)

Tah - posted on 11/15/2011

7,412

22

ebby Plump has a remedy for that..its called nice nasty...lol..when you respond in a nice tone and wording, but what you are saying is anything but....yeah im the princess of that..because she is the queen...lol...trust me she taught us well..lol

Barb - posted on 11/15/2011

3,372

15

LOL Ebby, i was thinking the same thing.. i posted the other day that a woman was a fucking idiot, but didn't put in her name because i knew it would get me in trouble. But she totally fit the definition... like a 10 year old can say yes to sex and it not be rape.. seriously

Stifler's - posted on 11/15/2011

15,141

154

YES.

♏*PHOENIX*♏ - posted on 11/14/2011

4,454

6

I would ask myself 'why waste my time' but I don't lol.

But I have thought about how a person will take what I say..so I hold back, not to mention..saying how you really feel can get you kicked off of com.

So yeah I do just give up on people here......sometimes

Tah - posted on 11/14/2011

7,412

22

excuse me...what to do with your pedophile husband..hmm...buy antifreeze?..squirt babyoil in the bathtub just before he gets in the shower...how about call your cousin ray ray and dem and let them have them...support him in jail...if by that you mean keep the commissary of big bubba full in exchange for his habitual rape of him...them yes..by all means...support him..

Brittany - posted on 11/14/2011

2,843

7

It depends on my mood. There are times (mainly on other sites) where I'll post and leave. People will quote and get all upset at my post, but I don't even bother to look at them. I made a single point, and don't feel that there is a need to drone on and on about it.

I'm not a very good debater... >

Barb - posted on 11/14/2011

3,372

15

Found it, Wendy, thanks: http://www.circleofmoms.com/welcome-to-c...

It has been locked. After reading the OP i was disgusted. How could she have even let him stay in the house for a week after she found out? I would of only let him stay so i could figure out how to make it look like he committed suicide.

I hope he gets life.. no, that's not right.. i hope he gets death.

Wendy - posted on 11/14/2011

241

29

found it! Adopted daughter molested......

Wendy - posted on 11/14/2011

241

29

it was a post about a woman who was seeking advice about handleing her husband who sexualy molested her daughter 1 or 2 i cant remember and i cant find it...i stopped even looking at it after a cpl posts it was ridiculous...i still get rated on my posts for that one i was nice until i couldn't be ae any more...but it annoyed me so much i put it out of my mind when i seen it last.....she sounded like she still wanted to support him even with him in jail.......grrrr

Barb - posted on 11/14/2011

3,372

15

LOL Wendy, what thread?

Barb - posted on 11/14/2011

3,372

15

"Learned helplessness", exactly! Does Disney contribute to that? I think that is why i always like Hermione in Harry Potter.. not only was she not helpless, she was constantly saving the boys asses.

I think the posts that frustrate me the most are the ones where they want to do something they really deep down know it is wrong but want to justify it and want everyone else to say it is okay to do it. Generally come across it most when couples are separating and she wants to keep the kids from him because he's bad.. but really he's a bad spouse, not a bad father. And that is not the best thing for this kids.

Tah - posted on 11/14/2011

7,412

22

i sure do. i have that problem with my mouth where i say the truth even if people dont like it, but after being on here for a few years i can tell by the posters first or second response if they are a lost cause in that situation and i choose to offer help to those who actually want it. I have never seen such learned helplessness and at this point i just shake my head...and keep it moving or if i need a good laugh i will go back. I am convinced some people like the situations they are in and they like to say hey look how pitiful i am. You know what may irk me a little more than that...is the people who come around and encourage the foolishness.....that defnitely makes me give up..so i guess the answer is yes.....i am finally learning i cant help everyone and some people dont want to be helped, when im done school ill open a website where i am paid to counsel so at least ill a fatter bank account for my daily headache..lol

Jane - posted on 11/13/2011

2,390

262

Of course!

Next question.

Kelina - posted on 11/13/2011

2,016

9

Damn skippy! And occasionally I get so frustrated I can't even reply. this morning I had to go vent because I'd finally reached my stupidity overload. It's a long long rant filled with lots of words I normally don't use at all!

Wendy - posted on 11/13/2011

241

29

yes yes yes and yes....lol...omg! i just came across this post in recent activity.......i had to join...at times some posts are frustrating