man ordered to pay ex-wife for lack of sex..

Tah - posted on 09/07/2011 ( 11 moms have responded )

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A French man was ordered by a judge to pay his ex-wife nearly $12,000 in damages for not having enough sex with her during their marriage, the U.K. Telegraph reported Monday.

The man, identified only as "Jean-Louis B." in press accounts, was fined under article 215 of France's civil code, which orders married couples to agree to a "shared communal life," according to the newspaper. A judge reportedly ruled that the code implies that "sexual relations must form part of a marriage."

The 47-year-old woman in the case filed for divorce two years ago, claiming that lack of sex with her 51-year-old husband was to blame for the split, the newspaper reports. After a judge granted the couple a divorce, the woman took her ex-husband back to court and demanded compensation for "lack of sex over 21 years of marriage."

A judge in southern France ruled in the woman's favor, according to the newspaper, saying, "A sexual relationship between husband and wife is the expression of affection they have for each other, and in this case it was absent ... By getting married, couples agree to sharing their life and this clearly implies they will have sex with each other



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April - posted on 09/14/2011

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back on topic, i think sex is important in a marriage, but i don't know about this court ruling. it's like saying to the person, "if you wanna be married, then you have to have sex!" It's like rape in the 3rd degree?

April - posted on 09/14/2011

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Emma, have you tried talking to your husband about it? I get the sense that he doesn't take your need for sex seriously. It's also not fair to you to have sex only when HE wants to. I think it is important to be able to meet your wife/husband/partner's physical needs. No one should have to give, but get very little back. With my husband, he loves oral, but I've been refusing because I want oral back (he only does it like twice a year, so I'm done, If he wants oral, well he knows what to do :) )

Stifler's - posted on 09/12/2011

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It's not the fact of not having sex it's not wanting to and doing nothing to fix the problems in the relationship.

Stifler's - posted on 09/12/2011

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This will be my husband if we ever divorce.

Tah - posted on 09/08/2011

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what do you mean if he can't get it up what is he to do..go get some help....little blue pills

Amy - posted on 09/08/2011

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he should have countersued and said she gave no oral sex. he he he. after all it counts, right? i mean, what is he supposed to do if he can't get it up?

but you know, in france, if it's all about sex, and it's the law. hey, the law is the law - bullshit or not.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-...

or if they signed pacs

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pacte_civil...

it's like if you sign a prenup - hell, you signed it, your fault.

And..how did 10,000 euros equal 12000 dollars. dang good thing I haven't been following exchange rates WOW. Our country's financially gone to hell, eh? Look what happens when i'm busy raising kids [because i keep having sex with my husband. he he he]

Rosie - posted on 09/08/2011

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it's bullshit, there's probably a reason he didn't have sex with her that didn't involve having sex with someone else. gah!

Jenni - posted on 09/08/2011

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She must have had a really high-priced lawyer to pull that one off. lol

Kellie - posted on 09/08/2011

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oh wow I have to say I lol'ed a little...

Amy - posted on 09/07/2011

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ha ha!! oh. sorry. serious issue from faux news center. um...well they have laws about it. probably to keep spouses boinking each other as well as others? no idea. I could ask my cousin. he's in france. lol.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 09/07/2011

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WOWZA! I don't even know how to process that.