Woman depressed...baby missing

Tah - posted on 01/05/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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COLUMBIA, S.C. — A former college student who became depressed and erratic after becoming a mother is charged with lying about where her missing 18-month-old son has been for more than a month, police said Wednesday.

Authorities said they were desperately searching for Amir Jennings after his 22-year-old mother, Zinah Jennings, told them several inconsistent and false stories about the boy being with relatives and friends in South Carolina, North Carolina and Georgia.

"I'm trying to stay optimistic about this," Columbia Police Chief Randy Scott told The Associated Press Wednesday. "But short of being optimistic, this case bothers me."

The mother and son were reported missing in early December, but the mother turned up after she was involved in a car accident on Christmas Eve.

Scott said officers hope a tip line and media exposure will lead to more information.

"I want someone to call us and say, `We just saw this on the news, we have Amir, we're sorry, we didn't realize this was going on,'" he said. "Her stories are so across the board that our search right now is from Charlotte to Atlanta."

Investigators said they hoped Amir Jennings was alive but they weren't getting much help from his mother. In early December, grandmother Jocelyn Jennings Nelson reported her own daughter missing, saying that she hadn't seen her in several days and hadn't seen her grandson since the Thanksgiving holiday.

According to an incident report, Jennings had had a car wreck several days before and had been making "cryptic phone calls to other family members indicating her ongoing fight with depression is continuing."

That sort of behavior wasn't unusual for the young mother, according to relatives, who told investigators the one-time college student had begun disappearing for days on end, with her son, since his birth.




"The grandmother told me specifically that, when she was in school, she was a very good person, a very good student," said Scott, adding that relatives had previously filed several missing persons reports on Jennings. "But once the baby was born, the conduct kind of changed."

Jennings attended Winthrop University in Rock Hill, S.C., for one academic year, from fall 2007 until spring 2008, according to a school spokeswoman.

Early on the morning of Christmas Eve, Jennings wrecked her Dodge Neon in a one-car accident near her house in Columbia. Authorities learned that Jennings was reported missing and they say Jennings began giving shaky stories about her son's whereabouts. They also spoke with Amir's father, who told them he had seen the boy during Thanksgiving but generally has had little contact with the boy.

"First it's, `He's with my sister in Atlanta. Oh no, I'm sorry, he's with my friend in Charlotte,'" Scott said. "It's all over the place. ... Everything she's telling us is just lies."

Several days later, police again spoke with Jennings, who said her son was with a friend in Columbia, but that story was also a dead end. After days of giving police bad information, the mother was charged Dec. 29 with unlawful conduct toward a child and is being held on $150,000 bond.

The police chief said he did not know if Jennings had an attorney. The number listed for both Jennings and her mother was not working, and the grandmother did not immediately return a message left on her work number. Police have not released the name of Amir's father.

At this point, Scott said investigators have two theories.

"It's either A: Zinah has given Amir to someone. Or Zinah has, in some way, shape or form, harmed Amir," Scott said. "Until we have something more on Amir, I do not rule out foul play. And in my mind, there's already an air of foul play, because no one will tell us where Amir is at. Foul play doesn't have to mean that someone is deceased. Foul play is lying to police."

Scott said he's struggling to remain optimistic that Amir will be found unharmed. He would not discuss any evidence police have collected from the mother's home or car.

"It's the way this whole case is playing out," Scott said. "It's more than just that the child is missing. The mother is lying about the whereabouts of the child."

There was no answer Wednesday at the blue two-story home where police say Jennings, her mother and son live, its door and front porch still festooned with Christmas decorations. The house, just a few blocks from one of Columbia's busiest thoroughfares, is on a quiet, tree-lined street of other one- and two-story homes, some with fenced-in yards and porches.

"We see each other and speak and say hello," said Selwyn Young, who lives across the street from the Jennings family and said he recalled seeing Jennings pushing the baby around the neighborhood and walking the family's dog. "Hopefully they find him. Hopefully they get it right."

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so we know that depression is very real and can be serious...we also know after having a child it can increase..so my question is this...

when women have documented mental illness and they harm a child in some way, should they be given shorter sentences, time in intensive therapy facilities or should they face they same consequences as those without mental illness??

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Jaime - posted on 01/24/2012

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honestly, as someone who is going through depression and trying to fix it with counseling, if i were to harm my daughter or my second baby i would expect nothing less than what i'd deserve, which would be whatever consequence any other woman who'd harm their baby would get if they had done so with a sound mind.

Kelina - posted on 01/24/2012

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as of yesterday this little boy is still missing. She's either crazy, scared, stupid or a combination of the 3 which is no good to anyone. hurting your child because of postpartum depression-I think it depends on how sever it was. If it was severe enough that other people noticed that their ability to cope or even take care of themselves was impaired and did nothing then yes I believe in a shorter sentence. Not every mother with post partum will hurt her child. In fact many of us the only person we could never fathom hurting would be our baby. But there's always someone who maybe didn't want her baby in the first place, or maybe it affects them differently. Or maybe when it gets bad enough they begin to think that their child shouldn't be without a mother, so if they are going to kill themselves then they need to take their baby with them etc. Post partum psychosis-yes I believe they should do time in a mental institution rather than a jail. Our brains are powerful things, and for some women especially those who have never dealt with severe depression it's difficult to understand. If I honestly truly and completely believed something crazy like demons were physically torturing my child, I'd choose to take them out of this world as painlessly as possible rather than watch them live in agony. Not saying this would ever happen mind you, it's just a news story from a while back that sticks in my mind. Sometimes I think that asking myself if i truly believed what that person is saying they did, would i have made the same choice? is a more objective way of looking at it than looking at it through an outraged mothers eyes.

Jurnee - posted on 01/06/2012

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Thinking rationally, I know depression is a real disease, and those affected need help. But when it comes to harming a child, I cant really think rationally at times. I suffer from depression and bi polar personality disorder,and could never fathom hurting my child. Ideally I think there should be better ways of finding and helping people before something terrible happens. The mama bear side of me just wants justice for kids.