Sereena - posted on 04/09/2010 ( 50 moms have responded )
Ok so im posting this to find possibly if i can find a parent with the same experience although im sure theres not much. my fiance and i have a 13 year old son who got friend 15 year old friend preg...i swear my fiance is a great father but is being told hes a bad father...i need some input to show him hes not and that our childs poor decision does not make him a bad father...
the accused bad father moment people are calling him on is when our son was 12 about a year ago after going through some maturing told my fiance that he was curious about having sex. my fiance told him the usually i dont think its a good idea for you to be doing that at your age please wait till your older. he also told him but if you really feel you need to although im not supporting it in anyway shape or form this is what you need to know and told him about stds and the risk of having a baby and what follows that...he also showed him how to use a condom and protect himself and bought him a pack of condoms just to be safe and hoped that he used them if he decided to have sex...everyone is accusing him because he showed him how to use and gave him condoms...i believe he was just being a good father trying to watch out for his son. he figured he would go through all of that with our son because if our son wanted to do it he would behind our back and hed rather his son open to him than sneaking around...does anyone feel the same way? if not be honest i would love some opinions my fiance is feeling like he let his son down and i think he could really use some opinions...thank you