Alicia - posted on 06/25/2009 ( 11 moms have responded )
As my children were younger they appeared to adjust well to our marraige but now that they are older they have gotten more opinionated (in a negative way). I've been with my children longer and I am the secure and stable foundation in their lives. To me this is extremely important. But I am obligated and committed to my 11 yr relation and 5yr marraige. Both parties pulling for my undivided attention is driving me nuts. What am I doing wrong ???