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HELP!!!! I have a 12 year old that has been thru alot, counsling for 3 years,excels in school,sports, but there are issues, lazy, will do nothing I ask of her,tells tales, I am even wondering if she is lying. I do not know what to do any more. If someone has some answers or opions I would love to here it.ASAP... Please

Brenda - posted on 02/16/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Deidre - posted on 02/28/2012

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She excels in school and participates in sports???? How can this be considered lazy?



What does she lie about? If she is being defiant at home and especially with you, I would venture to say she is experiencing herself trying to have some sense of control in her life.

She may not know this, but it's what happens as early as 4 yrs old. They are desperate to control something.

She may be like my boys. They only do well when in a structured environment. I know it may suck at times, but in my experience it really does prove itself. Charts and To Do Lists work well, too. Mentor ship programs are also great. She sounds like a great candidate for it.

Brenda - posted on 02/17/2012

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Talisha, No I have not tried this, its a great idea. Thankyou

I will let you know how it works out. Thanks Brenda

Talisha - posted on 02/17/2012

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Have you tried finding them a mentor?? Someone not to much older, but someone that is modivated and can help lead them? Good luck :)

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