Hollie - posted on 04/11/2011 ( 7 moms have responded )
Help me please........ !!
I am fast beginning to hate my own SD. She is 11 yrs old and has lived with my husband and I for just over a year. We also have two younger boys. She doesn't have a relationship with her own mother due to her mother being a complete drunken loser!! She is causing a huge rift between myself and my husband. She constantly lies, kicks, screams, tantrums, swears, sulks, attention seeks, bullies other kids at school, supposedly gets bullies herself at school (I don't quite believe that one though) I am seriously considering taking my boys and making a run for it. I can't cope anymore. I know she wants us out and I know I will be playing straight into her hands but I really am at my wits end. She has ruined our lives. She overeats and is 5 stone overweight so is under a dietician and a psycologist but neither seems to be working. If anything she is becoming worse. I want her out. I know I should want to help her but surely ther is a limit to how much you can sacrifice for somebody elses kid!!! I have my own boys to think about. Somebody tell me they are in the same situation??? My husband is oblivious to all this because of course shes a little angel in front of him.