Srishti - posted on 07/07/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )
My son is 13 yrs of age. I get complaints from my his school for no mistakes from his part. Repeated notifications from school makes me wild on him and makes me not to trust him. He justifies himself and its hard for me to support him as i hear a version from the school and another different version from my son. I tried even changing the school. But i get the same kind of complaints every now and then. When i hear his version from home, I believe him. But when i speak to the teacher, i totally feel how could one boy be pointed by so many people and he still says that he has done nothing. I'm really confused and not able to decide.
Even my neighbors come with complaints like he broke the vase, he tore the magazines, he was clumsy etc etc.. And when i ask him, "yes i took the vase, saw it and kept it there and came. I didn't brake it mom.."... I really don't know if i can believe him or not.. he is my son... if i don't believe his innocence then who will?
But I'm confused on how to handle these kind of things and teach my son to be away from all such complaints. Please can anyone help me.