Is there any real signs before your daughter starts her period? My 11 yr old has been haveing some lower adomen cramps and says she hurts there.. And a little mooder then normal!! If these are precursors to her starting, How long till she does???

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Hadley Grace - posted on 05/27/2013

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i am 11 years old and i have this white stuff in my underwear and my boobs are bigger then normal and i have been having mood swings and i have hair in my arm pits and the place where my under wear goes please help ????? i do not no what to do

Bethany - posted on 09/11/2013

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I really need help hear I'm 12 and I'm really scared I have been seeing brownish discharge in my panties what do I do? Am I starting my period, it doesn't smell like blood and I don't have cramps, is this normal? Have I got an infection? Please respond ASAP

Kimberly - posted on 06/02/2013

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My daughter just turned 11 this may. She has had small breast( just look like little lumps), hair on her vagina and under her arms since she was 9. She has complained of stomach cramps to the point she's crying for the last year. I took her to the dr and they said she was fine. Since she turned 11 she is a completely different person! She's moody, has an attitude most of the time, rolls her eyes, and talks under her breath at me. And is really mean to her brother and sister who are younger than her. She says that she wiped one day last week and it was a little pink (I didn't see it) but nothing since then. I'm so scared she's gonna start soon and I'm so not ready for that! Lol my baby is growing up and I don't want her to :(

Missy - posted on 05/08/2013

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My 10 1/2 yr old has been out of control moody for the last month. I have noticed her hair getting oily and BO. No boobs or pubic hair. Today, she was complaining about heavy discharge. When I looked at her underwear, it was a lite pinkish, I hope that she is not starting her period!?!?!

Marla - posted on 07/11/2013

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My 11 yr old had her first period in April but not since is that normal?

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Melia - posted on 04/06/2014

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Im 13 and have had white lumpy puddle like things in my underwear. Could this be a sign for my period? My sister who is younger st.arted already but i havent. Could this be a problem? I started puberty and breast growth about 3-4 years ago but still no period. What do i do? Please help

Celeste - posted on 03/30/2014

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This is a community for moms. Why aren't you guys asking your moms or a female relative these questions??? I wouldn't feel comfortable if my daughter was asking these questions to strangers on the internet

Mattie - posted on 03/30/2014

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Im a ten year old and i have cramps and white stuff in my panties whats going onn

Haylee - posted on 03/29/2014

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i am a 11 year old girl and i am having cramps in my stamuch and on the lower part right above my privet area's and i have mid breast and have hair under my armpits and down there and there black down there i need help am i about to start?? please tell me someone please and i need to know? about how long untill i start so i can be prepared! please help

Brittany - posted on 03/16/2014

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Hi am 12 and I haven't started my period yet I have little breasts And I have no hair in my armpits but I have been getting more hair down there lately and I have been having this white stuff on my undies and I was wondering should I bring pads to school please help me

Angelique - posted on 03/11/2014

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Thank goodness! I thought I had a disease when I saw the brown discharge on my panties!

Jami - posted on 03/05/2014

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Hey I'm 11 and I noticed thatnim different than. Few years back I fell pain by my stomach every wear hurts some days I fell like never waking up and others happy

Jessica - posted on 03/03/2014

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I am 12 and i just really qant my period now and im scared that I might not get it. I have all the requirements, but my boobs are small. I have the white discharge, does this mean I will get my period soon. I am really worried.

Charlie - posted on 03/02/2014

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I have two daughters ones Jessica who is 9 and hailey who is. 12 Jessica had her period a couple days ago and I was wondering why hailey never had hers yet and she is 3 years older and I haven't Sean any sins of her cramping but my 9 year old has bigger breasts than my 12 year old. Why is this happening help me!!!!

Jessica - posted on 03/02/2014

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I am nine years old and I just got my period yesterday my cousin who is 13 didn't have hers but I had mine befor her and I had no hair on my arms or down their I just had smallish boobs , what does this mean !!!!!!

Hattie - posted on 03/02/2014

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im 11, I have no noobs and I'm really worried about it, all my friends have boobs and I doesn't, is there anything i can wear to make it look like I have them, I'm really sporty aswell, if so how can I ask my mum for it without getting embarrased? Also I have been getting really sharp and slightly itchy vagina pains, I haven't had my period, and I'm really worried and it really hurts. My mum doesn't know though. Pls answer the questions above - both of them and thanks

Puneetha - posted on 02/23/2014

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am 13 now and i have chest and hair under my arm and down there.I will have light cramps and stomach aches,also pimples and and am so excited to have my periods..........

Carol Jule - posted on 02/17/2014

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I'm 11 years old and yes those are signs the signs are cramps mood swings white stuff in her underwear pubic hair and boobs are growing bigger than normal

Shaira - posted on 02/02/2014

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my daughter are having cramps she have discharge and she is very sleepy and she 12

Jeannelys - posted on 01/31/2014

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i am 12 and i am having cramps and my boobs are very painful and i am having discharge

Jadia Nimroda - posted on 01/28/2014

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i'm 11 and the past week or so I've been cramping ,bloated ,moody ,and for about the past month I have had light yellow stuff coming from the down quarters if you know what I mean and tot top it all off I have had a loss of appetite

Libby - posted on 01/27/2014

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That brownish gunk is your first periods. They can go on that way for some time before you get a more traditional period. You should keep track of these days on a calendar that you keep. Keeping track will help you figure out which days you'll want to wear panty liners so you don't walk around with the gunk and feel uncomfortable. If you haven't already done so please tell your parent or guardian. If they over react please forgive them we sometimes can't help ourselves. If you are truly feeling dizzy please tell those people too. Some girls can get anemic and vitamins can help you. Getting enough rest and fluids can also help. Lastly since you are smart enough to realize that your mood swings and irritability are most likely linked to your period use that calendar to help you recognize this so you can modify your behavior. Knowing the cause can help you overcome the inner grumpies. Take care and let us know how you're doing. You are never alone in this fun.

Christa - posted on 01/25/2014

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i read the a peroid can start any time between the age of 10 to 13. my daughter just turned 11 and has been showing signs of her period showing up for about a year now.

Aliya - posted on 01/23/2014

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I'm Nine And I Have Pubic Hair, Armpit Hair, Pinky-Discharge, Dizziness, Moodiness, Small Boobies, I Want To Sleep All The Time, To Be Alone A lot And Im Mean To My Siblings. Is This A Sign Of My First Period?

Antoniela Da - posted on 01/20/2014

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I am ten and have seen brownish goo in my underwear and sometimes feel like I'm peeing but I'm not help

Miranda - posted on 01/18/2014

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To Amelia, it's not called goo, it's white discharge. I'm 11 and I haven't gotten my period yet or discharge but I'm getting breast buds.

Rosa - posted on 01/17/2014

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i hate period because when it is coming out it feels like I am pissing up me self

Natasha - posted on 01/16/2014

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Oh and make sure you change your pad a few times through out the day even if you don't see anything just to stay fresh

Natasha - posted on 01/16/2014

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That's normal Rosa everybody is different your just starting your period. Sometimes it starts off brownish like or even light red.just make sure you get pads so you won't have any mistakes when your at school tomorrow even if you don't see anything put one on and be sure to wear them at least a week because you never no when it will actually come. I hope I helped a little and if you have anymore questions just ask and I'll help

Rosa - posted on 01/16/2014

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I have been seeing brownish things in my panty this is my first period please help me

Natasha - posted on 01/12/2014

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For the last 2 weeks my daughter have been having cramps but before that she had all the signs of getting her period for 3 years like acne, hair stomach pains and breast and the doctor thought she would get it early but she didn't. I Prepared Her For The Day Since The doctors said she would get it early but she was still upset at the sight of it, Today was the day my baby girl became a young lady at the age of 12 and she was so upset, I told her it would be OK and that after a while she would get use to it but she was still upset. So to all the young ladies it happens to all of us don't be scared, it might take a while to get use to it but trust me you will.

Jessica - posted on 01/12/2014

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keke don't be scared periods r like when u get a cut and u bleed u wear a bandade

Keke - posted on 01/11/2014

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Im 10 ive been very moody and having bad cramps i have hair on my vagina pimples on my forhead that hurt when you touch them. Is my period coming my sister just had hers when she just 11 with huge breast and hair under her arm pit. She said I'm next. Is My period coming soon I'm scared.

Blakeley - posted on 12/26/2013

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Yes, I am 10 and I started mine. My mom said that it takes a month or so to start again. Now I am on my second one and it took almost a month. It takes a couple of periods to start having them normally. Hope this helps.

DaeReyelle - posted on 12/23/2013

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i am 13 in the 7th grade and have ALL the signs of starting my period even cramps from time to time . when i was 12 i had really bad cramps to the point where i was crying & my dad had to carry me up 4 flights of stairs . my boobs are a 34a . im ready to start . my mom started around my age & my sister started when she was in the 6th grade. oh and i'm an athelte so ... but can someone please tell me when im going to start ?

Rachel - posted on 12/21/2013

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Help. Im 12 years old. I have been getting discharge for about 2 years now. I have hair under my arms and down there. I have BO. I get pretty bad breakouts. I have been getting really ba headaches, stomache aches and back aches. I get really moody like i can.be really happy and laughing one minute then biting someones head of the next. My bffs are all saying im starting my period. I also have sore boobs lately... I really wanna know if im starting... And if i am how can i tell my mum when i do? Please help!

Chanel - posted on 12/17/2013

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my daughter is 10 and she has lumps under her skin of her boobs and her boobs are expanding when will her boobs finally be grown and stop hurting and she got hair growing under her armpits and hair growing on her vagina and i bought her a bra does it mean shes started her period do i need to see her doctor please reply mums p.s this is serious don't laugh its not funny

Chanel - posted on 12/17/2013

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i'm 10 years old and my breast hearts when been touched and there's two big lumps in the both of them am i in my period cause i got hair under my armpit and hair on my vagina do i have to see my doctor

Christine - posted on 11/23/2013

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Nadia when I was 11 I had all of those symptoms. It really matters on who you are I started when I was almost 13. I would talk to your mom about it and maybe have her take you to a doctor and they can get a real look so you can tell when you will really start . I hope this helps.:)

Naida - posted on 11/23/2013

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I am 11 years old I am finding this white stuff in my panties and don't know if itis a sighn of me getting my first period. My mom started noticing the pimples on my face and my breasts are getting bigger and started saying it is a sighn. Also my friend started her period when she was 11 and I don't know if I am about to start

Keysa Marie - posted on 11/12/2013

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my ten year old daughter start hers oct. it was red she has craps in her stomac im was so scared

Amy Nicole - posted on 11/11/2013

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Jessica, You need to talk to your mom about it.
Don't worry about being embaressed she will understand because she was once your age to and starting hers. Don't rush it trust me it's not fun!
If you talk to your mom about it and let her know what's happening and how you feel about it and why you have such an attitude she will understand although i'm not saying just because you may be about to start or have started is an exuse to get an attitude and act like that. It's not an exuse but she needs to know about it.

Amy Nicole - posted on 11/11/2013

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My 15 year old started when she was 10 years old.
She ate alot, had cramps,moody,just wanted to be left alone,discharge,back pains. That's when i relized my daughter was about to start. I told her doctor about it and the doctor said if she drinks alot of milk and dairy products and eats alot of meats wich she does that she is more likley to start earlier because they are injecting cows and chickens with hormones that help them produce faster. That's why there starting so early there's not really anything to estimate how much time untill it happens i would make sure she's wearing a panty liner and talking to her about what a period is and what happens when she's on it so it won't startle her when it happens.

Fouzia - posted on 11/10/2013

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I dsughter is just 11 and she had period and her hight is very small i dont know what to do.

Rachel - posted on 11/08/2013

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Ok im 12 years old i have had hair down there about 1 year and under arm hair for around 1 year too. I have had discharge about 1 year too and i can be really moody at times. How long untill i possibly start? I dont want to start and im kinda scared it will come at school or when im out shopping...help please?

Ida - posted on 11/06/2013

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my name is ida im 11 years old and im getin hair down their and under my arm and white stuff in my panties and how long do ou get that white stuff before you start your period im scared be cause i dont knw when ill start and i mithg not be perpared

Ida - posted on 11/06/2013

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okay someone please anserw me im 11 and i havent started my period yet but i have been geting white discharge in my under wear and i would like to know how long dose it last untill you get your period??

Jessica Alexis - posted on 11/06/2013

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im 11 years old but im in grade 7 i have had hair arms and down there for about 2 years now i have had a fairley nig sprout over school brake this year and i have constant pain in my back and i have got my self grounded over and over for my atttitude one min i could be bestfriends with someone or in love with a guy next min i gust want to kill them and they havent even done anything i have had brownish discharge for about a year now and its only just came to my senses that it could be my peroid but usualy its light flow i dont want to tell my mom and it ends up to not be my period helllp i want to strt so bad but its just because im intrested most of my friends and class mates have started except for me and 2 other girls i just want to start but it scares me because i have so much cramps and sympotoms for so long now that i could start any day any time !!!!!!!!!!!!1

Ida - posted on 11/06/2013

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im 11 and i havent started yet but i been etting white stuff in my under wear for a while how lon will it take before i start

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