Janet - posted on 11/26/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )
My daughter had a small birthday party of 4 girls. A mother E-mailed me because she said my daughter was mean spirited to her daughter because she did not invite. She did not put the invitation in front of her. Another girl from the "Cheer squad" told this girl. She said she would of hurt me had I been standing next to her. I was told by her 4 th grade teacher last year these two girls I will call Beth and Sara. She needed to find new friends. I found out later Beth would smack my daughter in the face all the time the other girl has no respect for parents and her mother is a trouble making loud mouth. So then in the Summer/Fall she was in Cheerleading with these same girls. (My big mistake) The coach said they acted like the 3 muskateers but Beth was the main cause. I then discussed this with my husband and we said after this no more... We should listen to what the school system said to do. I was told via the counselor 5th grade that my daughter is well liked and draws everyone in... sometimes you must weed them out. Well, the mom upset me and I told her not to Email or contact me in anyway. I also said that the school district thought it was a good idea to seperate. (Which they seperated them in classes) Why this mom continues to want to have her daughter play with mine?? have no idea? She now has 3 other moms against me and they didn't RSVP for the party or anything. My daughter and I must learn to say good bye to people right??? The one girl is in Therapy! She needs healthy friends right? I am not dealing with it well because I feel like all the parents hate me. We have been dealing with major stress issues also in our life. Can anyone help?