AMY - posted on 02/07/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
My husband and I have been married for 1 1/2 yrs. I have a son that has been raised as an only child, my stepson came to live with us 6 months ago. They have been doing a little better lately it seems, but they fight and argue over everything. When I get on to them most of the time it is getting on to both not just one because Im not in the room and I didnt see, and went I say getting on to, it asking them to just stop im tried of hearing it.My son gets upset at me but then its all over, my stepson goes and finds his dad and makes it as if I only got on to him and tells him how much he hates his step brother and he cant live with him anymore but he dont want us to get a divorce. After my husband talks to him hes fine and goes right back into his step brothers room and starts playing like nothing ever happened. My husband thinks hes getting picked on and thats not the case. how do I deal with this cause its been to the point my husband feels so sorry for him hes leaving me and my son because hes miss treated my me and my son. Is it jealousy, wanting more attenction or what. I dont have a clue what to do when it happens agian.