Tanya - posted on 07/06/2010 ( 12 moms have responded )
Ok so i have a 10yr old girl who for some reason is scared of my husband he has been her dad for 8yrs we dated in high school and things have been ok till yesterday she said he grabbed her but he says she is a lier, s the question is who to beleave this is a problem because she wants to move in with her dad who has not had her ever longer then 2days he would rather party then pay attention to his daughter bbut i cant tell her that. All this is due to her being scared of something i cant see. she is a story teller so im not sure what to beleave, she says he grabbed her by thewrist and got in her face. well everyone says jump and listen to her but this would not be the first lie from her just never like this she wanted me take her asap. her dad said no and i let her know i am here and she is safe and to stay out of trouble,and that i am the parent and she will not be moving and that i love her. I also had them talk about it he yelled an said rude things so i closed the door it got us no where...what to do i am lost. she is a great kid and he is a great dad.what would you do?