Yonedi - posted on 03/02/2010 ( 58 moms have responded )
My son is about to turn 14yrs old. I'm really happy that we have been able to have open conversation about sex. We discuse the risk and what needs to be done to avoid getting any sexual transmitted diseases. I of course state the best way is to stay abstenant...NO SEX! But there came the moment when he came to me and said. "Well mom lets just say I was ready and I want to have sex, how would I protect myself if I don't have condoms". Now of course, I gave him the well you should love the girl, respect the girl....not rush into making that descion type response. But honestly I don't know if I protect him or hurt him if I give him the condoms along with another speech or not give it to him and wonder if he did it or not and if he was protected or not.....so tell me the best thing I should do as a mom!?????