Need advice for eczema also my tips on what helps!! Sorry its quite long!!!

Emma - posted on 01/27/2009 ( 16 moms have responded )

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My 7 yr old daugther has had eczema since she was a baby and has always been bothered with allergies, until recently these have all been quite mild. About 8 months ago her eczema started to get worse and worse until now it is awful. She spends her life itchy and sore and she has had one infection on her skin after another. We have tried so many different things, some have worked others dont. To be honest I am at my wits end, at times I feel useless and I hate the way it has taken over her life. She spends most of her time getting her skin bathed, creamed, dressed and wrapped. She goes to bed each night crying and itching. We have tried many things to stop her itching at night(she often does it in her sleep) the most recent being sowing socks to the end of her sleeve!!! Her skincare routine is never ending and of courseI am more than happy to do what it takes to help her I just wish we could find some sort of miracle cure which could give her a life free of all this. She hates it and is being teased at school because of her bandages etc!!! Some of the time her skin clears up well but if we stop her skincare regime or ease off at all it just comes back as bad as ever. Also any time she has a bug or sickness it makes her skin ten times worse has anyyone else found this?



Any advice would be appreciated as anything is worth a try, apart from the affect this has on her, I fear it is affecting my other daugther as so much of my time is taken up by this!! For anyone out there in the same boat as us here is her skincare regime in case there is something in there you have never heard of which might help your child.



Morning - Sponge skin with tepid water, do not rub - aloe vera gel, cortisone if needed, antibiotic cream if needed - thick layer of Cetraben emollient cream or oilatum emollient cream ( i find her skin grows accustomed to the same cream so we switch about every 3 weeks) - put on her tubifast body garment ( this keeps cream in and dirt /dust out) - bandage her wrist as she will scratch her arms at school otherwise, bandage goes on top of tubifast as it stays in place better - she wears a polo neck on top of this as it protects her neck ( if her skin is exposed to the cold air and dust it really flares up)

Through out school - emollient cream to her face and neck as these areas are not protected by her tubifast garments and without them her skin gets very dry and red, the teacher keeps and eye for her skin getting dry and she goes into toilets and does this herself

After school - I reapply thin layer of emollient to her whole body - then throughout the rest of the day we reapply emollient to her face(her dermatologist has said if her face doesnt look greasy she needs more cream, this is not always practical but we try to stick to this rule when poss)

Bedtime - tepid bath with table salt dissolved(helps itch)if needed and/or oilatum bath formula(rehydrates skin when it is v dry)if needed - twice a week wash hair in oilatum shampoo, try not to blow dry if necesary use cold setting - soak skin (for 20 to 30 min if possible depends how bad her skin has been that day) - aloe vera gel - cortisone and/or antibiotic cream if needed - thick layer of emollient - tubifast bodysuit - socks over hands/bandage wrists to stop itching

Throughout night - reapply emollient if she wakes and needs it, fan skin to soothe itch( we keep an electic fan in her room as often in the night she wakens scratching and gets quite worked up and in turn heats up which makes things worse)



Things we have had to change - use non bio - wash sheets 2 times week - no curtains in her bedroom - no carpet in house - cats new home, dog outside - house never over hot/cold - no flowers - no teddies on her bed ( just one fave which can be washed with her bedding) - hoover/ mop floors more often - damp dust - no soap whatsoever - avoid unnatural foods - switch to goats milk - her toys are in wipe clean boxes (less dust) - if we visit a house with carpet she cant sit on floor(otherwise within 10 mins her skin is red raw,unless the carpet it quite new) - she cant visit houses with cats - no swimming pool - hoover matress once a week ( we have a kirby which is great for this) - cotton clothes only



We are in the process of arranging allergy tests and have ordered Derma silk pillow cases which I hope help her face, which is never really red or raw thankfully but is always v dry and I think her pillow case although cotton is making it worse. She is also going tomorrow to get swabs taken to try to do something about this reacurring infection, doc said it is common in children with excema as they scratch germs from the skins surface into the blood (and since her skin is so bad and she itchs so much it is natural it will occur more often) but since it is so persitant they want to check it out.



Apart from the infection in her skin at other times generally I can keep things pretty much under control if I stick to her skincare regime. I just pray for the day she gets to live a normal life free from all this and she can play and visit family like any other child without worrying about dust, dirt and hair!!!



I hope some of this helps someone, I think I remembered everything lol !!!!!!

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Mei - posted on 03/18/2013

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Hi Melissa,

Hang in there, I'm so sad and sorry that your child is being teased. Offer her lots of encouragement and support, as long as she has a positive sense of self, the teasing won't get to her too much.

I've interviewed a parenting expert, and below is an extract of her advice on my blog Eczemablues.com
Should a parent say anything about how the rashes look?

If the child’s eczema is severe, he may know that people notice his skin rashes, should the parent say anything, and if yes, what to say, about the stares his child has been getting?

Dr Rosina: I’d like to start by saying that this is not an easy question to answer and that there is no ‘one’ universal way to parent so each parent must decide what will work best for their family. With that in mind, I would like to offer some suggestions that parents may find useful when faced with this dilemma.

The key to building self-esteem – which is a child’s judgment of themselves – is to give them the opportunity to learn, slowly over time, that they are valuable in their own right. Children need to come to understand that they have the right to have good self-esteem not because of anything they can or can’t do, or how they look, but just because they are human beings. To achieve this, it is important to create opportunities for children to esteem themselves as continual external praise is more likely to result in a child who looks outside themselves for esteem rather than develop self-esteem. For example, help children to ponder by asking questions like: how do you feel about yourself? Are you amazed about your life? Are you inspired by your ideas? Do you ever wonder how miraculous your body is that your heart can beat on its own without you thinking about it? Isn’t it incredible that you can experience the world through your eyes, ears, finger tips and nose? In this way your children can start to esteem themselves and see how miraculous it is to be a human being.

Link here http://eczemablues.com/2012/12/friday-qa...

Hugs!
Mei of EczemaBlues.com

Melissa - posted on 03/03/2013

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My child just turned 8 a few weeks ago and are in the exact same situation. But my daughter won't wear the undergarments b/c we live in FL and its to hot for her to keep it on. She had it so bad, she was missing hair back in kindergarten and bacterial infection after another, it kept her behind in school and still is. We've tried everything. We then moved and her eczema did better no infections for a year. We had to move again due to husbands job and its back. She's constantly teased. The kids in her class know not to do it but then you have lunch time or when they combine classes( for p.e. or when they release kids). The other children keep there distance and point fingers teasing her and saying she has poison ivy. Her skin is very tan and you can see the white patches everywhere. When she's upset or anxiety she begins to dig at it until it bleeds. She's very sensitive too and has a hard time calming down, even I have a hard time calming her down. It breaks my heart. Its even worst when parents tell there kids to stay away from her. I do the same thing too and switch meds quite often. I found that Vaniply Ointment helps, since ointments don't burn her like creams do. May be different for your child. My daughter is using protopic and its helped tremulously but when I miss a day it comes back. I'm worried in a few days she has to be off it since its a short term. Hanging in there and doing the best I can for her;).

Tameka - posted on 06/16/2009

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HI. My name is Tameka. I have four children and all including myself have eczema. Its been a struggle but we're staying afloat. My oldest was born with eczema. The other three have contact dermatitis that lingers for weeks at a time. Occasionally they have flare-ups behind the ears, behind knees and in the creases of elbows. my baby and oldest have food allergies and I have to keep journals of reactions. I have been taking him to get allergy shots weekly and its been hard. In the beginning no one wanted to watch him out fear of catching what he had.I would actually beg my mom to watch him so I could go to school. She'd sleep all night and in class I'd sleep all day. we went to doctor after doctor and I'm not selling any product but here's how we maintain control:
First there is no definite cure only treatment and this requires a complete alter in your life style.

Five minute rule after bathing- moisturize like crazy. Aquaphor is perfect. Can be found in walmart.
Aveeno oatmeal bath packs were good for soaking. also at walmart
Dove was good as it contains moisturizers and lever 2000 was good for really dirty days
both can be bought at walmart
Keep a spritzer body on hand for added moisture in hot weather
The sun is your friend but the summer is not. Oozing skin attracts insects. Stay in the shade but allow ur baby/child sunlight occasionally
Do not take your baby out around noon as this is normally the hottest part of the day.
buy a diary and get support. I kept track of all break outs and flare ups.
My son is allergic to eggs, chocolate, nuts, most citric fruits including tomatoes and oranges. Grass and duct flares him up. pet dander and roaches.
I used selsum blue medicated shampoo and nothing with perfume. Dreft does not work well with my son's skin but urs may be different. We use ALL hypoallergenic or Arm and Hammer's laundry detergent. No one with perfume on holds my baby or held my Tae.
All cotton tees and dress in layers. according to the weather.
We use Hydroxyzine( Vistaril) as our antihistamine mainly at night but sparingly.
Hydrocortizone 2.5, Triamcinolone Acetonide for some itching and swelling, and redness. We prayed a lot. I cried a lot. It was hard. I was only 18. It was heartbreaking hearing other children saying ooh mom, look at the ugly baby! The staph infections and lesions. People asking if he's HIV positive. ignorance is a horrid thing. One I even considered taking him back to the hospital and leaving him. He's older and is now a smart honor student that wants to be an engineer. We have all had eczema but his was really bad. I was told not to take him out because he was an open wound and could catch diseases easily because of all the tears in his skin.I hope this helps.

Ariel - posted on 06/01/2009

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Have you considered checking into things she's exposed to at school? Or in the car? Like taking a face mask while in the car, vacuuming it out or having her sit on a cotton towel while in the car, is she eating foods at school that may have ingredients you don't expect? Is your home free of mold, insects, etc... it sounds like you keep it very tidy, but if there is mildew in the walls it could be pumped through heat vents into the air. Hopefully the allergy tests will help you find the underlying cause, but knowing where these allergens pop out and expose her is handy too.

Georgia - posted on 05/22/2009

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Have you ever tried using a 1/2 vaseline & 1/2 glaxal base mixture for cream. That is what I use for my son after each bath. I also used elocom (cortison cream) when he got bad. I was also told to give him some allergy medicine before bed. For the itch, use the remedies that you would use for chicken pox (even calamine lotion or anti-itch creams). It's worth a try. Hope it helps. My son still deals with eczema but it has calmed down quite a bit. He rearely has outbreaks (springtime is his worst season).

Celita - posted on 05/19/2009

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Fortunately neither of my children have eczema, but I do. I am 56 years old and I still remember the discomfort, itchiness and embarrassment of having severe eczema. I still use a steroidal cream, but it's very exciting to see that there are so many new and hopefully effective treatments available. None of this stuff was around when I was a kid!! I can't think of any part of my body that has not broken out, except for the palms of my hands and the soles of my feet, but as I got older the severity decreased considerably. I really don't have anything to add to your quite exhaustive regiment, but I do want to offer you encouragement. My mother passed on April 25th and I am sure she can relate to much of what you must go through. One thing that you did not mention but that did help when the itching was severe was to wrap up in a clean, cool, white sheet!!

God bless you and your daughter.

Tiffany - posted on 04/28/2009

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my 5 year old was the same way! i STRONGLY suggest you look into cold laser therapy, there arent many studies on it but my daughter is going through it 3 times a week and her excema which was once so bad her whole legs were covered in sores is now healing after only 4 sessions. i have been able to stop using topical steroids on her and just rely on the therapy to heal the eczema. she is also on a small dose of a liquid supplement called CoQ10. at first my daughters pediatrician was negative about this and doubted it would work but everyone is shocked at the different in her skin. there is also a difference in her personality shes not as frustrated and fussy, because shes not so broken out. cold lasers dont hurt you dont feel anything the frequency of the lights stimulate the skin cells to repair themselves. right now the doctor that is doing the therapy for my daughter is a chiropractor and she is doing a case study based on my daughter and her treatment. the difference is really shocking look it up. this is the website for the laser they are using on my daughter... http://www.erchonia.com/default.asp?cont...

and this is a website about cold laser therapy & how its used on eczema and other dermatology problems like psoriasis & acne too...
http://www.lowlevellaser.info/what_condi...

Tina - posted on 04/18/2009

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Michelle,
Pls join you are not alone in this battle....:)

Tina - posted on 04/18/2009

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Julie - posted on 04/18/2009

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can i ask u a question,my son badly wants to go swimming but his ezcema is bad and he is under the hospital at the moment.Does your daughter go dwimming or does it make the skin worse.Thankyou

Kalpana - posted on 02/23/2009

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our now 41/2 yr old has exzema since she was 3 months old. after trying every prescription steroid meds her doc suggested, after having her tested number of times for food and other kinds of allergies, we came across a wonderful doctor and he totally changed everything what we were doing .
he told this to us:
1. first let the kid soak in bathtub in luke warm water for 20 mts (when we were told not to make them have long baths, this new doc said their skins are water deprived so let them soak) use vanicream soap.and wash it off.
2. he asked to apply thing coat of tropicort cream(generic name is Desoximetasone) on exzema site
3. on top of that apply Atopiclair nonsteroidal cream.
4. finsh by applying Vani cream to all other parts of body.

first we did these steps for every day, then after one month we did every other day and then after 3 months we are doing once a week. her skin is smooth and she is not getting up scratching from her sleep.

vanicream is available in CVS pharmacy dept ( if they dont have they ca get it for you)
i am using venicream lite lotion and vanicream soap.
it is free of dyes, fragrance and masking fragrance, lanolin, parabens and formaldehyde which are there even in other creams like eucerin, cerave, .
i did not want to use steroid creams. we also realized that there are other alternatives we just have to find the right docs. she was seen by local universities doctors and they had also prescribed steroid creams but exzema always came back once we stopped using the steroid cream.

i would suggest you to change doctors if she is going to the same one for some time now get a second third opinion.
we also keep a food log for our daughter and by this we came to know that artificial food colors in food was a major cause of her skin reactions. we threw away all things containing artificial food color.

what she eats also might be the cause of allergy on her skin. Try also getting food like dairy products and meat products that contain no growth harmones,
i was in the same boat as you last 4 yrs waking up many nights due to her scratching and crib with blood all over because of her scratching. she has very large patches of exzema all over her body. but not any more.

she has had every test possible patch test, test where they poke concentrated dyes of different products, nut allergy test, dairy test, even dust mite allergy, nothing came out.

hope this helps

Korene - posted on 02/14/2009

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There is a simple blood test that your daughter can take that will tell you somewhat what she is allergic to.My son has had skin issues since he has been born and until recently have we discovered all the food and enviromnetal issues he has. Now that we have the food under control his skin has been 100 times better. I would check into the goats milk I took my son to the allergist today and it turns out that there is something that is in goats that there is in cows milk and he has an allergy to that particular thing so he cannot use either. We use rice milk instead. He usually gets his vitamin D from OJ. He has many food allergies milk, soy, corn, sesame seeds, eggs, nuts, . . . so its hard to get used to. we also use Dove soap which is the most gentle for the skin.

Sherrlyn - posted on 02/10/2009

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Hi Emma,
I can tell you what I used for my eczema....Renew lotion. I get my lotion as well as all my household products from a wellness company. This company only manufactures Natural Non Toxic products. They do not use anyting harmful at all. They promise us better safer products that are much less expensive that retail stores. I have cleared my eczema completely with this lotion. I promise you will love each and every thing they offer. contact me for details. wsherrlyn@bellsouth.net or you can call me at 601-508-3391
I love not itching and clawing at my skin. I finally in 42 years now have wonderful soft skin! No more nasty steroids, no more harmful chemicals. I can get you help for your child.
God Bless
Sherrlyn

Candida - posted on 02/10/2009

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Andi - posted on 02/05/2009

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Brandie - posted on 02/04/2009

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Has the dermatologist told you it may be psoriasis?