14 yr old pregnant 3 times!

Katherine - posted on 06/11/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )

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A 14-year-old has already been pregnant three times, and her 35-year-old boyfriend is finally headed to jail.

Just when you thought it couldn't get more disgusting than the dad who claimed he thought he was having sex with his wife when he impregnated an 11-year-old.

The girl's older, but somehow this story is just as chilling -- perhaps more so.

According to the Vancouver Sun, restaurant manager Mark Tyndale (not to be confused with the basketball player of the same name) struck up a relationship with the child in January 2007.

By April, it was sexual.

She went through not one, not two, but three pregnancies in a year and a half. The first she aborted, sparking a suicide attempt. No cops were called in to stop it.

The second she miscarried. Again, no cops.

Somehow the cops finally got wind of this some time before the third pregnancy -- although she still managed to BECOME pregnant (and give birth) before Tyndale was ordered away from her.

The court has acknowledged the girl claims to have been a willing participant in all of this, but sexual abuse charges stand against Tyndale because, ahem, she was under the age of consent in Canada.

The fact that he's plead guilty removes all hemming and hawing on this. Someone -- her parents? -- allowed a 14-year-old to spend an inordinate amount of time with a man two and a half times her age.

And then no one threw up a red flag before pregnancy number three?

In the West Virginia case, as creepy as it was, at least things were addressed immediately -- they didn't wait for the girl to be impregnated three times over.

In this case, Mark Tyndale may be the main transgressor. But it looks like someone else should be slapped with some child endangerment charges of their own.

How does something like this happen?

How does it happen? The parents didn't teach her safe sex? The BF is a pig and a pedophile? IMO gross!

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Kris - posted on 06/13/2012

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That's disgusting. Wtf this should have been stopped long ago. He should have been serving prison time before the third pregnancy, whether or not consented to or not. Totally ferrel and parents should also be answering questions in my books. They are just as guilty as the man who did it. They allowed it, and should have reported it. The clinic or doctor who aborted the first should have done something then, should have filed a complaint and reported it to police there and then on the spot... goes to show you, you just can't trust anyone with your children no matter how old they are, there are still preds out there...

Katherine - posted on 06/11/2012

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Good points Denikka.

Teresa - posted on 06/11/2012

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I agree with Dennika. lack of a strong father figure.

Denikka - posted on 06/11/2012

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My sisters friend was pregnant at 14. And again at 16. I've personally known girls who were 14-17 and dating men in their 30s. It's not really that surprising.
Which, to me, makes it SO much worse.
It's becoming more common for older guys to date younger girls. And the only explanation I can come up with is the break down of the family unit. Father isn't around (either working, actually not there, or just emotionally not there), so the girl is looking for someone to fill that void. Boys are growing up without a positive male role model and so are not instilled with those morals. They see an easy catch, and viola. 14yr olds getting pregnant by 30 somethings.

Everyone was in the wrong here. And it's becoming more common.
In and of itself, I don't think it's inherently *wrong* persay. Girls were marrying older men for ages. It's much more recently that matches between same ages are becoming common. I think it's the reasoning WHY this is happening that is much more appalling. You have to address the *why* before the *what* can properly be addressed and dealt with.

Dove - posted on 06/11/2012

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That is beyond disturbing on so many levels!! :(

Jayce - posted on 06/11/2012

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I don't even know where to start. The biggest question I have is: where the hell were her parents?