Lissa - posted on 08/10/2011 ( 21 moms have responded )
Talking amongst friends they are quite aghast that I don't think being in love has much to do with a good marraige. I think there are far more important things than being "in love" to me that is simply a chemical reaction that wears off after a while. I believe it's like a good friendship , you make time for each other, listen to each other, have respect and value each other but you don't need to be "In love". I think you need to be a good match whether you are alike or completely different, you should work well together. I think you can love and have affection for a person while never being "in love". What do you ladies think, is it important to you?