How could a father do this?

Nikki - posted on 07/01/2011 ( 17 moms have responded )

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This happened in Australia last year, the prick has just been sentenced to life. He killed his two year old daughter to get revenge on her mother.

Even as two-year-old Yazmina's fearful eyes brimmed with tears, her father was not persuaded to change his mind from what he was about to do.

Consumed by hatred for his ex-partner, Ramazan Acar stabbed their daughter to death and later admitted it was for revenge.

Earlier, Acar had posted a chilling message on Facebook, "Bout 2 kill ma kid".

The 24-year-old was jailed on Friday for life, with 33-years' non-parole, for a murder the Victorian Supreme Court judge described as the worst possible kind.

Yazmina's mother Rachelle D'Argent said justice had been done.

On the day Acar took Yazmina from her mother last November, his daughter had run to greet him with a big smile on her face.

He convinced his ex-partner to let him take Yazmina for a drive to the local milk bar for chocolate.

It was the last time she saw her daughter alive.

The only account of the chilling events that followed came from a conversation Acar had with two psychiatrists.

Acar told them that as he got out of the car armed with the knife and approached Yazmina, who was playing, he noticed a worried look in her eyes, and she began to cry.

He said Yazmina looked at him in fear, "as though he were the devil".

Acar had taunted Ms D'Argent with phone calls, text messages and Facebook posts, threatening to kill Yazmina and saying it was for "pay bk, u slut", as he drove around Melbourne's suburbs.

At one point he put Yazmina on the phone to Ms D'Argent, and the toddler uttered her last words to her mother: "I love you."

After killing Yazmina, he told Ms D'Argent during a phone call "I've killed her to get back at you" and "Even if I go behind bars, I know that you are suffering."

Acar was serving a suspended sentence at the time of the murder for assaulting Ms D'Argent, who had taken out an intervention order against him.

He had 31 prior convictions.

In court, Acar nodded arrogantly in agreement when Justice Curtain said he had told police that night to throw him in a room and rot, because he had killed his daughter and wanted to be punished.

But when Justice Elizabeth Curtain later highlighted that Acar blamed others, including police and his father, for failing to intervene to stop him, he was visibly exasperated.

She said it was clear that Acar's judgment was impaired by a hatred and desire for revenge, feelings which had been fuelled further by consuming alcohol.

Acar was also angry after a woman he had been seeing had told him earlier that day their relationship was moving too fast.

Meanwhile, Ms D'Argent was moving on with a new man in her life.

Justice Curtain said the murder was a fundamental breach of a parent's most fundamental obligation.

"She was killed by the one man in the world whose duty was to love, nurture and protect her," she said.

"You committed this murder for the worst possible motives; revenge and spite.

"You killed your daughter to get back at her mother."

Outside court, Ms D'Argent read a statement devoted to her daughter whom she referred to as Mimi.

"Mummy told you there would be justice for you," she said.

"Forever you will be in my heart and I know that you will always be smiling down on us."

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Kellie - posted on 07/03/2011

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ok, far out shame there are so many stories like this type of stuff!

Sounds similiar to the little Aussie girl who was living with her Dad in the US, I can't think of her name atm I'm tired!

Brie - posted on 07/03/2011

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no its the one where her daughter was "missing" for 30 days before she reported it, made up a fake nanny and said she kidnapped her, now she has drowned.. etc.. you will just have to look it up.. way to much to go into!

Kellie - posted on 07/03/2011

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is that the one where the mother put her in the microwave and killed her?

Brie - posted on 07/03/2011

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well good to know he got life.. the same thing is going on in the states right now... the casey anthony trial.. google it and you will be able to read it but a 22 y.o. girl killed her 2 y.o daughter... the jury is going to deliberation starting monday... its freakin sick.. and its also good to hear that over there, like in the states, that they could be torn to shreds by other prisoners.. If there is one thing i respect about anyone in prison or jail is that if you commit a crime on a child or elderly person, mainly child, they will kill you... period... and i don't think its fair that the prison seperates those people.. i fully believe its justice whatever they get!!!

Kellie - posted on 07/03/2011

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Happens all the time :( What about the Dad that threw his 4 yr old daughter off a bridge in Melbourne? or the one that drove his kids into a dam on like Mothers Day (I think, it could have been Fathers Day), I believe that was in SA.

It's heartbreaking.

Alexandra - posted on 07/02/2011

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There is actually a sort of rank in prison. The top hated prisoners are anyone who commits a crime against a child/or the elderly. Seems even some criminals have morals. I dont think he will serve the whole sentence, he'll probably get killed before it. I hope the torture him slowly so he can feel the pain he cause that little girl.

Dorota - posted on 07/02/2011

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So the story I was just talking about is the Turcotte murder.... just do a google on it.... so heartbreaking!

Dorota - posted on 07/02/2011

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God, these kinds of stories make me sick to my stomach. I was just watching something earlier on the news today about a father 39 y.o. who stabbed his two kids (a 5 year old and 3 year old) and is on trial right now and trying to claim that he was temporarily insane or something. Because the wife left him blah blah blah.... I tried to do a search for it but instead found this story :
http://www.ourweekly.com/los-angeles/17-...
Man now I'm really depressed and going to bed. Good night cruel world.

Christina - posted on 07/02/2011

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I bet prison is very kind to him. There is no excuse for what this man has done. I just hope that this story reaches single parents and that the parents try to work harder to coparent their children in a positive way! You've got to love your kid more than you hate each other.
My heart goes out to this little girl and her mom.

Nikki - posted on 07/02/2011

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That's what my hubby said Liz, he will be beaten raped and then spend the rest of his life in solitary. Still doesn't seem enough, that poor mother.

Liz - posted on 07/01/2011

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I don't think they're kind to child-killers in prison.

Jane - posted on 07/01/2011

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He is probably a sociopath, so that his daughter was nothing more than an object and not a real person with feelings. In his world he is the only person who really matters. In addition, he may also be a "toxic personality." By divorcing him, his ex betrayed him, so he needs to get revenge no matter what.



To him, the killing was no big deal because to him his daughter was just an object, but valued by his ex. Thus, removing the child would hurt his ex and let him get revenge.



He is sick but there is no way to make him well.

Shannintipton - posted on 07/01/2011

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I could read past the first paragraph.

Katherine - posted on 07/01/2011

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I read this a while back. Heartless bastard. He deserves to be stoned to death, and more.

To get revenge by killing a baby is unforgivable.

Constance - posted on 07/01/2011

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If there is a time for a death penaty this is it. I know there is not one in Australia but he deserves the most painful death possiable. How heartless can someone be?

Firebird - posted on 07/01/2011

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That is horrifying. Absolutely heartbreaking. I almost cried while reading this, and nothing makes me cry. I'm probably going to have nightmares about this tonight though.