Christina - posted on 10/09/2011 ( 10 moms have responded )
I posted this same thing in Custodial Stepmoms, but I'll do the edited version right now.
We pay child support. Hubby got behind about 2.5yrs ago because he lost his fulltime job and could only get a part time job making $300 a month. He has been making consistent payments for a year and a half again. We have our son (Sorry, I can't call him my stepson) 7-9 days every other week, she has him 5-7 days every other week. We still pay child support.
BM has consistently called my husband or sent text messages to hubby and ME asking if we have sent her in any money. It is at least twice a month. She will also tell us the AG keeps calling her asking where my hubby is, that they are going to arrest him for being behind, AND demanding to know (from her) when he is making another payment. This has apparently happened about three times in the past four months.
Of course we called and it was all a lie. AG told us they would NEVER contact her asking her info about us, even if they were issuing a warrant. They also told us they are very happy with his payment history for the past 1.5yrs and have problems with when he sends his money in during the month because he pays not only his entire payment, but sends extra in for the back support. And there has never even been a motion filed to start the proceeding for an arrest warrant.
So how the hell do we get this girl to leave us the hell alone, and to quit lying to us about the AG? We have even started sending in her entire monthly payment, plus the extra, on the first paycheck of every month hoping she will leave us alone, but now she is back to saying the AG is calling because he hasn't made a payment in 3wks (regardless that the entire thing was payed plus extra 3wks ago.)