My hubby teases my kids!

Shannintipton - posted on 06/26/2011 ( 18 moms have responded )

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I can't stand it. He honked the horn at her when she was waiting for him in the doorway. Scared the crap out of her.



He also teases her when she crying. He will fake cry until she is screaming. This goes on for about five minutes. It may not sound like long time but it is with the loud high pitch only dog can hear scream. I have to tell him to shut up and try an calm her down at the same time. Drives me nuts.



Anyone else have this problem or something like it?

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Shannintipton - posted on 06/26/2011

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OMG I am saved. I have two more members. YES. Thank God. I was scared. LOL I am going to go find who my angels are.

Constance - posted on 06/26/2011

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Nichole This was not him joking. I have one really close female friend and she lives 2000 miles away from me and she is my sister. I am very use to guys being complete idiots. I am the guys girl they can talk about just about anything around me not a lot bothers me. Even when there is a new guy around and they start talking about things that they normally won't around females. They always say "Hey wh are talking about this? There is a female in the room."
The response is always," That's not a female it's just Constance."
I always start checking o make sure I have all my feale parts. I really am not easily offended, but thi time what he said he was dead serious. He always gets loose lips when he drunk exspacially if it is 151. That is how I found out about one drunken night and he balcked out then too. Since that night he han't drank more than 2 beers at a time.

Shannintipton - posted on 06/26/2011

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I agree Jane. Every time he does it, I explain how it is making her feel like her feelings mean nothing. That she will think that he doesn't care how she feels. Things like that. He still is doing it but for less time. So he is getting better and I just keep telling him over and over the same thing. I think it will sink in sooner rather than later....I hope. Thanks.

Jane - posted on 06/26/2011

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Some guys never really grow up. They claim and may even believe that they are "just teasing" or "toughening the kid up," but in reality they are being bullies. And THAT needs to stop.

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√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/26/2011

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Shannin- don't worry. It'll only take about 2 years to hit the surface and then another 4 to slowly seep through the first layers and how old is she? So 4 + 2 + 4....... she'll be mentally scarred by the time she's 10. :P

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/26/2011

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I would have just laughed at the Whore comment....... but we joke waaaaaay too much all the time for something like that to be taken seriously. I'd think it was endearing - I'm used to obnoxious guy guys
lol

Constance - posted on 06/26/2011

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It was aalmost 10 years ago about week before the towers were hit. At the time there were 3 apartments pretty much linked so we always had a lot of people around. Well that weekend we were having a party a three day event Labor day weekend. My hsband and his command were getting ready to deploy for the next 7 weeks. Well on night 3 my husband had gotten off work finally. The first thing he did was get a beer and downed 3 shots. We were having a good time hanging out with friends. My sister and her ex were actually getting along so it was good night. Me and my husband went outside and we were hanging out with a couple of our friends. Well one of my buddies started talking about his pregnat 17 yr old wife, his girlfriend back home, and the one he had in the area. He was going on and on about everything and called all them his sluts.
My husband chimed in. He put his arm around me and response with "This is my whore." I stepped away from him and I said " Are you fucking kidding me you fucking asshole!" I puched him directly in the kidney and dropped to his knees in pain. I went back inside. He came in like 20 mins. later and saw I was pissed off and hd not a clue why I was pissed off. He was so drunk he couldn't even remember that he said . That was the lat night he had more than one beer. I told him he either quits dinking or he can say goodbye to me and the kids. he quit drinking.

He felt that punch 3 weeks later and a nice deep purple bruise. Now he does word things carefully even though he has been an ass for the past 8 yrs. He never has even thought of saying something like that again.

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/26/2011

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because that's the most interesting part of the snapping point - the 1 dumb thing to finally 'click' lol
I just was there tonight with my boyfriend over laundry. told him I was leaving him if he didnt do it? Lol

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/26/2011

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lmao over what? That's all I want to know. What was the 1 straw to throw the punch?

Constance - posted on 06/26/2011

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Shannin I would kick the shit out of my husband if he ever teased my kids when they are crying. Hell even a french rolling pin works greatas well it won't break. I have never beat him with it but he defidently knows not to eally piss me off. He has done that once and it was just my fist. long story tell you about it later.

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 06/26/2011

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I'd be chasing my husband around with duct tape, a frying pan, a rolling pin or some good ol fashioned mens favorite.... zip ties..

Shannintipton - posted on 06/26/2011

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Tell me about it. I mean we haze our kids. But I don't not to the point of tears. I tell them they have to clean the whole house vacuum and all and they just look at me like Really?

Stifler's - posted on 06/26/2011

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No lol I was just saying, they seem to think the kid is overreacting. Men can be so stupid.

Shannintipton - posted on 06/26/2011

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Would you let your hubby do that to your four year old. The honking was kind of funny. But the crying and fake crying until she is over the edge. I think that is horrible. It teaches her that he doesn't respect her feelings. Well it is just plain mean.

Stifler's - posted on 06/26/2011

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My dad used to do this to me. They totally think it's funny and that everyone is in on the joke.

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