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Jurnee - posted on 01/07/2012 ( 602 moms have responded )

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New years write

New paper, new pen
where should I begin?
I can write a new dream,
or a fantasy scene.
I think I shall write
the view from my sight.
I will write a new life,
free from all strife,
where no one is in pain,
no one is insane.
Where only love rules,
and us romantic fools
are finally respected
our ideals accepted.
To always be kind,
keep an open mind
Love without fear,
enjoy life while it's here
Play as hard as you work,
enjoy all of lifes perks
Remember to rest,
in silence we hear best
Never take more than you give,
lead by how you live.

Copyright © 2011 Laura Verdi Stridiron

just my thoughts for the new year!

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@megan....Im not a bitch because i disagreed with the fact you think hitting your kids is a good thing.Its called a DEBATE form and when people disagree with you it means theY DON'T AGREE with you, usually doesn't have a lot to do with their character, just their opinion on a particular topic. Get over yourself already, its been like 6 months.

Shannin decided to take information from a private chat on facebook and post it on COM, she copied and pasted several private messages to people without notifying those who sent the messages. That is a violation of trust. She is also going on that "we harassed" person who 1. Flipped out and started calling down a group of women, then 2. lied about having cancer to get sympathy then 3. faked her own death when she was removed from the group, even went so far as to write an OBIT and post it on a free online site. as for me. The most I was involved in this whole ordeal was the post I put up here after I was rudely told to leave. I am a member of that group, even though i had no involvement or activity in the threads all of the sudden. I am deleted and judged along with the rest, who for the record did nothing wrong besides remove someone who was breaking the rules of the group.

Johnny - posted on 01/09/2012

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Cut the dramatic bs shannin. Chats on here and Mystery Guest are not exactly the basis of a deep real friendship.

Elizabeth - posted on 01/09/2012

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Johnny, seeing as how you are addressing Shannin on a random chat site, it would seem like you are wanting others to read this as well.

We've seen the point made by others, basically "Shannin's untrustworthy, lying, manipulative, thrives on drama, and will stab you in the back when it suits her." We hear what you are saying. Now it is up to each individual to decide on their own what to believe about her.

I have noticed that although she vents at times about others and situations, she doesn't give names or details. It's only when others start bashing her, that she starts giving details, and then it is normally in defense. I'm not saying that this always happens, but it's what I have seen.

Having said this, I am now sticking my fingers in my ears and humming really loud, hoping to ignore any drama. (while squinting to try to read lips because my curiousity will be piqued.)

Elizabeth - posted on 01/09/2012

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Ohio, hi I lurked for a few before I jumped in.

Nichole, maybe if they get your infection cleared up, you'll feel better emotionally. That absolutly sucks that it's been going on this long and they just found out.

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 01/09/2012

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If you hit Control and then the R key it will refresh whatever page your on. Easier for me. No moving hands. Total laziness. Aaaaaaaaaah lol

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Shannin, while you did not take info that jonny or I have said(because we weren't involved) you betrayed the trust of the entire group that we are a part of by taking private messages from facebook and bringing them into this community. Its indirect but you still did it.

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 01/09/2012

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Everyone bail out of the sinking ship. Our buckets aren't working anymore LOL

Shannintipton - posted on 01/09/2012

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That I cut and paste stuff from a private community on to CoM. WTF for starters. I think there was another one too. thinking....

Johnny - posted on 01/09/2012

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I never suggested you said stuff behind my back. I am suggesting that you are not what or whom you appear to be on here.

Carolee - posted on 01/09/2012

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Enough. I will now lock any and all threads that mention this drama. Take it to facebook or pm's. Or even make another private group where you can bash each other's names. I don't care.

Shannintipton - posted on 01/09/2012

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I do however have a problem with another member. But NOOOOOOOOO I cant talk about that. Oh no.

Shannintipton - posted on 01/09/2012

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Johnny I have not said anything behind your back or you either julienanne

Shannintipton - posted on 01/09/2012

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WTH. You wont let me say my side. I have to do it in a private message. Why cant I defend myself in public. We are going no where fast. But I can keep this up all night if you what. I love the drama isnt that what you guys think anyway. There is nothing that is going to change this. I didnt say anything that wasnt already out there. I saw what I saw. I am feeling what you guys are doing to me now. I am not imagining that. Some of what you guys are coming up with is LIES. What the hell.

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Best to take it with a grain of salt. ok.....your a bitch...take that with a grain of salt megan....

See how that doesn't work???

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 01/09/2012

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Thanks Megan, for acting like a 12 year old little girl. You ASKED ME if you could call them names. I said if you go there, you are going to get name called back. YOU MADE THAT DECISION and what happened? It got uglier. Then what happened? You reported and blocked her. End of story, your a child and I don't ever want to talk to someone again who EGGS on a fight, then reports someone when it gets ugly. So done with you

Johnny - posted on 01/09/2012

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A lack of a filed death certificate (searchable or make the phone call for yourself), the lack of any obituary other than a free online one that you write yourself, and the lack of any acknowledgment by any family members that their loved one died?

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why would you vent on a debate form....moms who need to vent is where you do that. My opinion made you feel like i was calling you a child abuser, i did not depict you as such by saying i dont agree with corporal punishment. Maybe its a projection of inner guilt or something, but i did not call you down in any way.

Johnny - posted on 01/09/2012

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i have not said shit about you behind your back shannin. i came in here, in public and asked my questions. you turn around and rather than actually trying to be a friend, you just accuse me of betraying you. at least i gave you the chance to say your side, which you never have done.

Shannintipton - posted on 01/09/2012

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Can you screen shot proof that a person is alive and well. I would like to see that.

Shannintipton - posted on 01/09/2012

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So were my details. They were already brought up by other people. So what is the difference.

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You know where i got the information??? READING EVERYTHING THAT WENT ON. I actually dont use pm, i can take a screen shot of my lack of messages and send it to you if you want.

Elizabeth - posted on 01/09/2012

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I'm just too lazy to track down something that isn't copywrited to use as a profile pic. I actually had one, then I couldn't access my original profile, and said screw it.

♥♪Megan♫♥ - posted on 01/09/2012

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My ears were burning



Niki yes I reported her because she was getting out of control and you didn't do shit. You're claiming to be my friend and at the same time letting someone else go after me because of something and calling ME rude. And yes I blocked her because I have other stuff in my life to deal with besides some narrow minded bitch who has her head straight up her rectal cavity about whether I work or not and the technicalities. And for the record I said something once and YOU jumped on MY case for it.



Julianne, I'm venting and you're making me sound like a child abuser and then wanted to act like I got everything you said wrong. I dwell get over it and sometimes people will say things to make their friends feel better. Best to take it with a grain of salt.

Carolee - posted on 01/09/2012

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Then stop bringing just part of the info. All of you. Either give up all info, go to facebook and hash it out there, or stop berating each other. People can only comment on what they see. It's not the fault of the people that they're not given info that you refuse to give them, yet they cannot get on their own.

Johnny - posted on 01/09/2012

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i do agree with that julianne. i think it is better to just discuss our own experiences and not bring other people's issues into the mix. people are going to believe what they want. i had started this with shannin because she had claimed to be my friend and then when everything went down and i saw her other side, i was hurt and betrayed.

Shannintipton - posted on 01/09/2012

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I guess it makes a difference if you say shit behind someones back in a private message. That makes it true then.

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Its only details that were already posted by others in BL...i see your point though, its really none of their business and shannin had no right bringing it here.
Its just a piss off when people go off like they know whats what when really they are just plain ignorant to the whole ordeal.

Shannintipton - posted on 01/09/2012

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See that is a flipping lie. I didnt do those things. How can I fight against lies. This is bull shit. This is what I saw and am now feeling it. Yeah no bullying going on here. Yeah right.

Johnny - posted on 01/09/2012

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and just a note, in case assumptions are made. while I like julianne just fine, and do not think she's a bitch at all despite our disagreements on here, we are not friends on facebook and simply happen to be members of the same large group. just in case someone thinks she is part of the "friends" shannin thinks i am trying to impress.

Shannintipton - posted on 01/09/2012

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Julinanne I did no such thing. Where are you getting your info. I have done everything out in the open. I did not cut and paste anything. I say things out right. That is why I am in trouble in the first place. Remeber.

Johnny - posted on 01/09/2012

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I realize that Elizabeth. But recent experience has suggested to me that there are a lot of "fake" profiles and people out there. My tinfoil hat may be a tad tight at the moment. But it is hard to believe people are real when they don't even post a slogan or a logo that represents them. I protect my identity on here because I was stalked in my early days. But those who become my friends do get access to the real me. Although that is going to change now.

Carolee - posted on 01/09/2012

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I also defended you against the "no pictures" thing, E. As far as I'm concerned, you're excluded from this crap.

Shannintipton - posted on 01/09/2012

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lol I got a ton of new members and lurkers too. Tonya T. and Emma Thomas just to mention a few. They were new members as of tonight. So whatever.

Elizabeth - posted on 01/09/2012

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I was defending the whole not having pics on facebook thing, and I had a lengthy post on one of the pages where I had said that I never saw Shannin get into specifics, or use names until she started getting attacked. Perhaps that is the reason. Although I also stated basically that just because I haven't seen it, it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

Johnny - posted on 01/09/2012

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So it wouldn't occur to you that I thought YOU were one of my friends? I have no one to show off to in here. This isn't DM or even the Welcome page. As far as I am aware, most of those girls do not follow BL. Judging from the other threads, they have left. You don't see a following do you? Other people posting? People marking my posts? It is just me. And in fact, if this is seen, I will likely catch some hell for it. But I had hoped that you did place some value on our friendship. But apparently it was as fake as everything else.

Carolee - posted on 01/09/2012

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I don't care how you guys feel about each other. I'm just trying to make sure people play by the rules while on this site, in this community (or any other that I MOD or ADMIN). That's it. It's already gotten out of hand. Everyone involved in it has broken the rules. I'm done.

Carolee - posted on 01/09/2012

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I just read an exceedingly long post about it in another group that is not a part of the group where this originated where they stated that details would also be shared in yet another group. So, so far there are at least two groups with part of the information that I don't have access to. That's fine and dandy. But once it's brought on here (by whoever does it... I am excluding no one), it becomes my problem.

Johnny - posted on 01/09/2012

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I have my reasons Carolee. I have little doubt that eventually, one day, it will all come out in the wash. I am sorry if I have added to the stress of your day. I'm logging off to go to bed soon and I have no doubt I will be blocked after that anyway. So I will be out of your hair soon enough.

Shannintipton - posted on 01/09/2012

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Johnny you are trying to show off for your friends. So I think I will cut out the drama and just ask if you could please leave BL and ask the others to leave too. As much as I dont like them, I love CoM more. So just please leave. And dont for get your friends please. thanks.

Carolee - posted on 01/09/2012

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And that's fine, Johnny. Feel how you feel, but there was no reason for you to be snarky to Elizabeth like that.

And I've been trying to catch up and deal with this "theme" all fucking day.

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Megan, I'm upset that ONE DAY after you whining to me about me JOKINGLY calling you a B****, you private message me and ask to call someone a B****. Also, when you blocked another member, what message does that send to everyone? How are we all going to get along if you can't handle someone disagreeing with you, so you block them? NO none of what went on is okay, but no one reported you and blocked you, now did that? You did that childish stuff all on your own. Seriously? Reporting her? Low........

♥♪Megan♫♥ - posted on 01/09/2012

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A little. It's late here I already overslept this morning and was late getting my older daughter to school. So I'm going to bed now. Besides I want to see if Global BC covers J-z and Beyonce being total ass hats to part of NYC.

Johnny - posted on 01/09/2012

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Perhaps at this point you may be starting to sense a theme Carolee. I will say, I am really quite upset. I felt very betrayed today.

Elizabeth - posted on 01/09/2012

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Fairly logical assumption seeing as I am on CoM, I said that I didn't have pictures of them on facebook, and I talk about my little guy frequently.

Johnny - posted on 01/09/2012

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A die hard fan??? Okay.

I'm not asking whether or not you looked. I gave you the opportunity to know me. You didn't do the same. Even my 65 year old mother and her 70 year old cousin, neither of who can even manage Facebook, can upload pictures to things. It isn't rocket science. It is less difficult than finding and joining Circle of Moms.

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