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Which do you think is worse, lying about taking your birth control or lying about your vasectomy?

Katherine - posted on 06/14/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )

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both!!!!

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Jurnee - posted on 06/15/2012

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both! Why be in a relationshiop when you cant be honest.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 06/15/2012

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I knew an asshole that did just that. He and his wife got accidentally preggo. They had a kid, and he loves her but never wanted kids. He told his wife no more, and she wanted one. He told her, "well we can't because I already got a vasectomy. I told you I never wanted them".

I think both are really bad things to lie about. I cannot think of one valid reason a person would lie about either.

Corinne - posted on 06/15/2012

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Wow! I would never lie about birth control or even be considering sterilisation without talking to my partner first. If it'd been done before we'd met, it would still have been brought up esp. when talk turned to babies. Sheesh!

Denikka - posted on 06/15/2012

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Yea....dude is a total douchebag. No one should be going through life altering surgery without discussing it with their partner. Especially something like that. He KNEW she wanted a baby. He KNEW she was trying to get pregnant. And he thought she'd *just drop it*??
Yea...douchebag AND stupid. Maybe it's a good thing he got himself fixed. . . .

Katherine - posted on 06/14/2012

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I was just reading an article where a man got a vasectomy without telling his wife. That's horrid on his part IMO. On the other hand being tricky and not taking your BC is deceitful too.

What would you do if your husband did that? I'd probably divorce him. I'd be so mad. Especially if I wanted more.

http://thestir.cafemom.com/pregnancy/139...

Denikka - posted on 06/14/2012

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Agreed. Both are extreme examples of ruining the trust in a relationship.

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