Gina - posted on 04/16/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
My wedding is in a few months and I have 2 children of my own in addition to 2 step children. My fiance found out last year that that his youngest child that he has been raising as his own is not his child. He then told me that when she got pregnant she told him that there was a chance the baby may not be his. Since they had already had a son, he chose to stay and raise the new one as his own. I am very bothered by the fact that he is thinking about not telling the child or his own family about this situation. The biological father does not even know he has a child as well. According to my fiance, he knows him.I feel that this is a secret that could destroy his relationship with both his children. I have alot of anxiety about keeping a secret this major in my new family. My mother in law and father in law dont even know. To top it all off his ex wife is very mean to my fiance and unreasonable. Am I over reacting? Is it even any of my business?