Alison - posted on 10/06/2009 ( 11 moms have responded )
I was a single mom for two years. I gave everything up and moved across country to get married to my husband who is in the military and has a daughter. They are both three and both girls. It works out pretty well but i have problems with resentment. I miss being a single mom and having that close relationship with my daughter. I feel like everything has to be fair between both girls and it's hard when one i gave birth too oneand the other i feel like I have to take care of her and be her mom. There are times when my husbands leaves for long periods of time and I get mad that I have to deal with her. She has lots of issues. I know she is just 3 and that I should love her, but I seriously feel repulsed when I have to. I HATE feeling this way and it affects our marriage. Has anyone gone through this? We are doing couseling but she just put me on antidepressants. I took them for maybe 3 months and stopped cause it wasn't helping and I don't want to be on them. Can anyone help me?!!!