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His kids are the world while my kid and me are nothing.....

Rachel - posted on 05/24/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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this is just how I'm feeling.... I get accused of being jealous of his kids but the reality is that I am always put on the back burner. His youngest is his only boy and he's the "Golden Child" and can do no wrong and I am the bitch for calling him out on it. I'm SO tired of being anything but a priority to my fiance. I will be having our child in less than 2 months and he just ignores me and acts put out like he lost his maid.... GRRRR..... thanks for listening ladies....

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Alesha - posted on 05/25/2012

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i feel for u...me and my boyfriend each have our own child and i am pregnant with ours now. i feel like he favors his completey and puts his child above the one i am about to have as well, all his worries r to make sure she has everything and not this one, he has mentioned abortion many times just so his kid can have the world given to her. i am glad he is a great parent but i disagree with favoritism and fear this one will be pushed aside. and it is very hard to talk to him about this because he gets defensive as soon as i mention his kid. try talking to a counselor to help ease your mind, help your family and relieve any stress this is causing u. that is my next step because its getting hard to handle on my own...also for me it is a bit of jealousy seeing him with his child and how much he cares since my child does not have her biological father in her life

Cyndel - posted on 05/25/2012

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I don't have any advise, just I hope it gets better! (((hugs)))

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