Teresa - posted on 01/15/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )
I'm the mother of many who has tryed to get my children ready to begin life on their own. Due to the struggles I had growing up I've let them all know they'll always have home to come back to. My thought behind that was I didn't want any of them staying in an abusive relastionship or what ever it may be, Instead two of them seem to ejoy living off of us. Not working not going to school why my husband and I both work and pay all the bills. I've let it be known they need to be out by the end of the month. Still no job and only two weeks to go. I can tell already they don't plan to leave. One of them even has a child which is making this even harder. How do you force them to become independent?