Stefani - posted on 06/07/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
Me and my SO have been together for 5 yrs now. He has one 11 yr old daughter from a previous marriage and i have one son from a previous relationship. His daughter was 6 and my son was 3 when they first met. At first things were okay, i have my son full time and he gets his daughter half of the week. I have always been for fairness for both children accepting my SD in with welcoming arms and so did my side of the family. His side well thats diff, my SO mom and ex wife constantly make him feel like crap for helping me take care of my son. They tell him he needs to just focus on his daughter. I believe that when 2 people love eachother and try to blend a family its only fair for the stepkid to feel loved by the other family. So for 5 yrs my SO has gone back on forth on treating his daughter like a queen and treating me like crap. His daughter is severly jealous of my son who doesnt get ANY attention from her dad. She constantly competes with my kid. Cries and plays the victim whenever shes in trouble.Her dad always believes her. My son and I are here with my SO 25 days a month without her here bc she only comes over 5x a month now that shes older and she comes over and starts so much crap in my home its unreal. I do more for her then her own mother and i still look like the bad guy somehow..She lies and manipulates her dad and her mom and im so sick of it. idk what to do anymore????