Marcella - posted on 05/22/2010 ( 14 moms have responded )
may 14 my fiancee's ex wife had her first weekend visits with the children that are in state's custody well while they were in her care the three year old burned the two year old with a hot lightbulb we do not know the whole story and of course we wont be told the story. The oldest tries to hurt the younger one when he is at his mothers or the foster home but when the children are with us they get along just fine. We are being ignored on this fact, with grown children of my own i feel there is something going on or the oldest is calling out for attentiona nd is not getting it so he is figuring negative attention is better than none the mother now post she dont know what to do am I wrong in saying that a little more attention paid to all the kids might help the situation we are seeking some counciling for the oldest. But the state wants to split the children so to me i feel they are punishing the children for the mother not watching them.