Katherine - posted on 11/23/2009 ( 6 moms have responded )
me and my husband have been together for four years in march and have been married for a year and a half. jasmin my step daughter will be 15 in january i feel pulled because i want to have a better relationship with her so much but i just dont know how to do that i try to do things with her just me and her go get our nails done go to the movies go shopping ect. but everything i do seems to just make her more give me give me and i dont like that...sometimes she makes rude comments or makes me feel like im an idiot or shell ask me a question and then when im trying to give her an answer she cuts me off..i am just now turning 25 and my husband is 37 i feel like im fightin a battle almost everytime i turn around...she makes comments about my age and how im soo young and ask me how old will you be when im 25 or how old will my dad be when you 30 and then the looks she gives me like wow hes gonna be old or whatever...... i also have a step son (that will be turning 12 in march) that i love with all my heart we have such a wonderful relationship im overjoyed to have him as MY SON i just wish me and jasmin could have the same relationship..there mother isnt in the picture she lives in mexico and jasmin very rarly wants to call her and her mother never calls them so i feel like im pouring my all out for her and jr and jr gives me back soooo much love and affection but jasmin not so much.....me and my husband have a 2 almost 3 year old and an 8 month old my precious baby girls and sometimes i think she doesnt like that....i see her being mean sometimes to my 2 year old hitting her yellin at her and then other times she kisses her and tells her i love you soo much lili ......i just dont understand
what do i do ?????????????