Ashley - posted on 09/10/2010 ( 6 moms have responded )
So long story but will try to keep it short. My boyfriend has a 2 year old daughter from ex but she had a son when they met so when we take daughter we also try to take boy. This sounds bad but when they went to court ex cried to judge about how she felt my boyfriend was unsafe all to not allow him visitation so judge believed this crap and he now has to have supervision. Judge made boy 7 at the time a supervisor ya i no crazy right any way this has been for almost 2 years now im in the picture anyway apparently not sure if i believe because came from bio mom boy has told her that my boyfriend has taken girl to store and what not now i have never seen this happen and im always there so it did not happen we live in a small town someone she knows would see him alone with his girl that would be crazy to take that chance anyway i believe if he told her that it was because he wanted attention he gets left out a lot but now im worried because if we take him he may make up more lies to get attention but he loves it with us so it makes no sense other then a mothers attention out ways everything else. And also now bio mom thinks this is happening i told her wasn't but why would she believe me really court is next month and im worried that all this crap is going to come up. what do i do im a mother i love all the kids but im just confused by boys statements and a bit hurt as i try for him to have as much fun as possible with us. Also she has told boy that my boyfriend dosent care about him lots of awful lies to hurt boy out of his own mouth she hurts her own son to get back at my boyfriend. ok sorry it was long but any advice welcome.