Nellie - posted on 08/14/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )
Hi, I'm a single mom looking to get pregnant again...no, I'm not crazy, I'm just not willing to wait around for the perfect partner. I live in a small town where there are very few lesbians, so out of the few that I have to pick from, I'd need to find someone who was okay dating someone who had a child, and who had the same parenting style as me. So I'm not going to wait around. I'm not looking to get pregnant right now, I want to save up for a house first AND have at least $3000 set aside for the baby. I can't afford artificial insemination at $2500 a pop, I mean, what happens if it takes over 5 times to get pregnant? I'd be spending a fortune alone on just getting pregnant, never mind saving for a house and baby! And because I live in a small town, I don't know any man who'd be okay helping me out by flying solo into a cup for $50 a pop, kind of a home-kit artificial insemination. And I don't really want to pretend to date some guy and use him just to get a kid. Maybe I'm putting too much thought into this...but how did you get pregnant? If I traveled over an hour away to the city and did find someone, would I be able to ask for a complete medical history signed by a doctor so I'd know he's not lying?