how important is sex?

Nikikia - posted on 03/01/2010 ( 12 moms have responded )

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for those of you ladies that tested the waters before you dived! (sex before marriage) how important was size and stamina & would you have still married him if he couldnt mantain an erection? i know i wouldnt have married my husband because i really enjoy having sex!

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Kenny - posted on 01/14/2013

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we all need sex its very important to us, and it should be being close does things to your body u may not even know about... do some reading .. have sex live longer and healthier..

Kitty - posted on 04/21/2012

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well I married mine in 1993 we were hot for 2 yrs togather Before we got married and man it was just as good after until... we had our first born then our sec life Changed BIG TIME....

Victorya - posted on 10/15/2010

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I think that sex before marriage is important. If your not comfortable in bed than hows that relationship really going to work out?

Size doesn't matter its whether or not u like what your man is going.

Emma - posted on 10/12/2010

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Very important, if we go with out sex for too long the relationship starts to suffer we need the connection and intimacy that sex provides.
There in my view is just no point in having sex if its bad !! Feeling unsatisfied in bed leads to resentment more so if your satisfying your partner but your not getting the same satisfaction.

Kitty - posted on 09/11/2010

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i agree and then makeing your self happy when there person isnt around is just as nice :)

Chandra - posted on 04/14/2010

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I remember some sex counselor saying once - How happy you are with the sex in your marriage depends on how much sex you are having (and if it's satisfying enough) Meaning - if you get enough it's only 10% of what makes a happy marriage - if you're not having it enough - it's more like 90%!!! I know without a doubt I would still marry my husband. There are days I would LOVE to murder him - over one thing or another (jk - Ha Ha Ha) but we were meant to be together. We have survived so much - before our marriage, and after. I can't imagine going through those things with anyone else!

Jacklyn - posted on 03/11/2010

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not to say sex is everything..but almost..haha. me and my husband based the beginning to our relationship on it..than i realized he was not just fantastic in bed be an amazing guy..if it wasn't for great sex i may have never allowed our relationship to last as long as it did before we got emotionally attached because i have never been one for dating. So yay for sex

Allison - posted on 03/05/2010

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Honestly, if the sex is not good, i find myself not attracted to the guy that much any more. But, there are a lot of other things I'd like to have too. I won't settle for just good sex if that was the only thing he had to offer til death do us part, but I don't think I could marry someone who couldn't satisfy me. Of course, a person can be shown what you do and don't like and if you say so gently, you don't wound the fragile male ego....

Carolee - posted on 03/02/2010

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I can always please myself, but you can't always find somebody who will be there for you emotionally and physically (not just sexually). Heck, before I met my husband, I had a lot of great sex, but that usually came with an abusive relationship. I'd take pleasing myself and a good relationship over that ANY day!

Heidi - posted on 03/02/2010

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Sex is very important! I think the saying goes it doesn't matter about the size,, its how they use it. I have no doubt in my mind at all that if given the chance again I would marry my husband all over again. He is my soulmate. He is the perfect size for me and I wouldn't change a thing about him. We both know what eachother likes and wants everytime.