Alishia - posted on 10/19/2009 ( 20 moms have responded )
I am having a hard time turning my husbands head. We have been married only a little over a year now and we have no kids together but 3 in all. One is mine, and 2 are his with his ex wife, who all three live with us, always have. So, why aren't I able to turn his head? I have tried EVERYTHING, but porn... He doesn't like it he says. We are both young, me being 21 nad him 26. We used to do it every chance we had, and even before he went to work while he was trying to get dressed to live with our door closed and LOCKED and kids home in the living room watching tv and playing. So why am I having such a hard time turning his head.... It's not the fact of turning him on, I have tried the "pleasure him and he will return the favor, but he just lays there and doesn't get into it anymore. We have gone 2 months without sex, which for me is hard, I love having sex with him and retain myself all the time, but now it's only when he wants it. He doesn't do any forplay or anything, he gets right to the point and doesn't take his time. I feel like he is unattracted to me and not in love with me anymore.... My self esteem has gone down to an all-time low. Is there something wrong with me? Am I doing something wrong?