Joanna - posted on 06/23/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )
This is long so bare with me. I have been married for 6 years and am not happy. My husband is not home much he works a lot. (Part owner with his dad) I work third shift (for about a year) and have a 6yr old daughter. We don't do anything. When we are home together (which is not much)we don't do anything. I want to go out and do something. I have told him this. I have been honest with him and told him that we don't do anything and that when we go out he is boaring. ( I know that hurt him but I told him I don't want to and I am being honest with him) There has been no sex for months. He has some issues and I have asked him to talk to his doctor about it and he said that he has and there is nothing he can do. ( i don't belilve him at all) I have talk to him many times about it. I don't enjoy sex with him. I am not wet. It hurts when we do it. He just puts more lube on me and that does not help. I have asked him that we try new things but it never happends. it takes him 45 mins or so to cum. I am sore and I am board. I don't even ask him to have sex anymore. I don't know what to do. I have been seeing a counsoler and we went for couples therapy two years ago for a while. we stoped because my insurance was not covering it all, and he thought things were getting better. I am so lost, there is nothing here we are roomates. Please help.