Are you married/with boyfriend or Single/Divorced or simply never married?

Brenda - posted on 11/28/2010 ( 61 moms have responded )

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I am SIngle/Divorced and only 24...how about you?

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Blanca - posted on 03/06/2011

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I am 31, not married but am living with the father of my daughter who is 17 months old. We have been together for 13 years and have lived together for 6 years. We plan on getting married one day but we are happy the way we are. In Texas if you live together with someone for more than 6 months, it is considered a "common law" marriage...crazy right?

We definitely have NOT had a perfect relationship but I love him anyway!! :)

Brenda - posted on 12/01/2010

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Wow that sux In the USA, if you want a divorce and there is no answer within 90 days you are officially divorce, if he got married in the US, maybe you should look into it, everything will split 50-50, I dont know how the situation is, but good luck!

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Catherine - posted on 08/31/2012

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My bf and I met in high school and have known each other for 24 years and have been happily not married/common-law for 11 years. And we have no plans to ever get married. Early in our relationship we discussed marriage but after some deep discussions, realized it was to please family and not ourselves. While we are both spiritual, we aren't religious and neither of us feel we need to be married to be committed to each other or to raise a family. Our committment was proven when we chose to create children together. We have 3 kids together, ds will be 9 in Dec., ds just turned 6 and dd 17 months. We've had our ups and downs but are committed to doing what we have to for our family to be happy and healthy. Plus both of us are too stubborn to give the other the satisfaction of being the one to "quit".

Ruberther - posted on 08/27/2012

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im 24, in a relationship ,bt its compicated.inlaws does'nt like me for there son,prefers the mother of his first son.he proposed,said yes bt i dnt think iam about to quit.... not happy at all

Crystal - posted on 07/30/2012

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I am 27 and been married for 2 yrs. now. He is not my daughters father but she adores him

Annette - posted on 07/05/2012

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I am 16 and I'm engaged xD we had some trouble but he is a good man and future loving father.

Michelle - posted on 06/27/2012

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Still married but finally have things rolling to get this divorce finally over. Have a boyfriend of over a year now and we are very happy. Once I am divorced it will make things alot better.

Samantha - posted on 03/04/2012

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i am unhappily married to my kids father right now...im working on a divorce...he doesnt help me at all...im bascially a single mom! its soo hard but im getting by with my family's support!!! :) im 23 yrs old with 3 yr old and 1 yr old.

Deborah - posted on 01/21/2012

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28, engaged to my boyfriend of 2 years 9 months. One daughter from a previous relationship, a son together and a bun in the oven.

Michelle - posted on 01/05/2012

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I have been seperated from my husband for 2 years. we were married 12 years and have 3 kids. Dating my boyfriend of 7 months and couldn't be happier.

Roxie - posted on 12/30/2011

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i am married to my college sweetheart :0) Been together for 7 years, married for 1 year and half. I am 25

Kayla - posted on 12/16/2011

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I'm divorced, but dating a very good man and only 20 with another baby on the way

Claudia - posted on 12/15/2011

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Im 23 married for 6yrs and 4 months to my high school sweet heart we dated for 3 years and a half before getting married. I got married at 17 and a half and my husband was 20 and a half...and just had our first child on the 13 of Nov. 2011

Claudia - posted on 12/15/2011

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Im 23 married for 6yrs and 4 months to my high school sweet heart we dated for 3 years and a half before getting married. I got married at 17 and a half and my husband was 20 and a half...and just had our first child on the 13 of Nov. 2011

Miriam - posted on 10/27/2011

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age does matter with feritility, but not always. I have a 9 year old and last year @34 decided we wanted another one. Got pregnant the first month we started trying (same with my 9 year old) Not only did we get pregnant we had fraternal twins!! :+)

Allanya - posted on 10/26/2011

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I'm 37 and remarrying in April 2012 to my partner of 3yrs. We have no kids together YET (nature has not been going our way sadly...hopefully that will change) but I have my two wonderful sons from my first marriage that lasted 10yrs. Be warned ladies, age really can make a difference to your fertility!

Faye - posted on 10/24/2011

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I am 42 - almost grandmother, with a 20 yo daughter (delivers hers in late Dec.) and a 16 yo son, (their dad and I divorced in Dec 2005) Son and I live with my BF and his 25 yo son.

BF is still married but they have been separated since July 2006 (5+ years).

Jamie - posted on 10/22/2011

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I am 27 years old. I have 3 kids. I got married when I was 17, we had a baby boy who is now 7. We are divorced. I got married again and had 2 girls with this guy. We got divorced and I am now married to my best friend and have our baby on the way. It is his first marriage and his first baby. I know this one will last. The other 2 marriages were not good for the most part or else we would still be together. So yes, I am 27 with 3 kids from 2 diff dad's and 1 baby on the way. I am married to an amazing man and don't ever see us divorcing. I am beautiful and an amazing person regardless of my past. Divorce is hard. You have no idea until you have been through it. If you can make it work out, DO IT!!!!!!!

ALICIA - posted on 10/19/2011

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I AM A SEPARATED/BOYFRIEND GOING THROUGH MY DIVORCE AFTER BEING SEPARATED FROM MY HUSBAND FOR FOUR YEARS. ACCEPTED THE SINGLE MOM LIFE FOR A WHILE AND DECIDING TO ALLOW MYSELF TO ENJOY LIFE!

Kayla - posted on 10/14/2011

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Age 20, currently going through a divorce with my sons dad :/ We have the WORST relationship, we will never be able to be friends. My son has no idea who he even is

Guadalupe - posted on 10/04/2011

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I have never been married, I live with my boyfriend we have been together for 10 years. I have 3 kids by him and I have a 10 year old from a previous relationship. I am 27!

Amanda Martinez & - posted on 10/02/2011

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I'm 24yrs with 2 kids and expecting another baby. My Son is 5yrs my daughter is 4yrs and I'm pregnant with another little boy. My boyfriend is not the father of my 2 kids the one we are expecting will be his first but he loves my kids like if they were his own. That makes me very happy, but our relationship is very complicated and it has many ups and downs and almost everything is because of the bad economy we are in...if we were in a better and stable situation we were very happy now and even married already i believe! =(

Miriam - posted on 04/28/2011

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im 35 been married for 11 years. Have 3 wonderful boys 8yrs. and 3month old twins :+)

Tiffany - posted on 04/11/2011

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I just recently got married a month ago..its both of our first marriage and plan on being the only one. He is 25 and I will be 25 in Dec.

Sol - posted on 03/26/2011

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married for over two years after "dating" for 3 months and have a 10 month old baby

Anjari - posted on 03/07/2011

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I'm married and I'm 28 been married for 5 years now... marriage is definitely an eye-opener bu the most rewarding experience next to being a mom ♥

Nayuribe - posted on 03/06/2011

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hi, i recently turned 28, i have 2 daughters, i live with my bf, who is the father of my daughters, we've been together for almost 6 ys and he keeps saying he does wanna marry me, but in december, he bought himself a PS3, instead of getting me a ring (which would have been cheaper anyway)! i think when he says "baby, i DO wanna marry you!" he says it de los dientes pa fuera!!! :(

Angela - posted on 02/09/2011

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In a relationship with my Wonderful Boyfriend who is the father of our beautiful daughter...will be getting married soon :)

Lisa - posted on 01/19/2011

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i am married. i had my first child alone, i was single. i got pregnant with my second child and ended up getting married with the guy. we've been married for 4 years now. we had a second child togeather. i have 3 beautiful kids, i'm 26 .

Maria - posted on 12/27/2010

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I am married but we have been separated for 6 months already, I think is time for me just to file for divorse and let him be happy, He is a very inresponsable parent he doesnt help me at all, thank god for my job and all the support from my friends, I have been able to forgive and move forward with my babies, 19-months Isaiah, 34-month Miles and also my daughter Mixellen she will be 16 in February..

Brenda - posted on 12/19/2010

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The first time I got engaged, I was happy and I loved my boyfriend at the time, then yet I knew we werent gonna be togheter forever, and I told him that, he saud he was up for the challenged to change my mind, so we stayed for 5 years together with ups and downs, we had the time of our Teenage years, lol I still remeber him and smile, however I think you know when He is the one. We were good friends but we werent gonna be the best married couple.

RITA - posted on 12/18/2010

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I am single, never been married, 28 with my 15 mo son and almost 3 year old (in 2 more weeks!) daughter! I am happier now than when I was with their father!

Ianina - posted on 12/14/2010

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I think that is the millon dollar question.
In my case, I just can´t imagine my life without my boyfriend. Of course we have our issues, But we talk about all of them and that is what keeps our relationship alive. We have been living together for a year now. Crazy, because we were living in diff countries when we met and he was married at that time. He moved +8000 miles away to be with me. That gave me a hint :)
I knew he was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with a few months after we met.
We have our ups and down but I believe that in a relationship, comunication is the most important thing. Good luck with yours and feel free to add me if you want to talk

Iysha - posted on 12/14/2010

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I am 22 almost 23, living with my daughter's father and have been engaged to him since 10/09 but am seriously questioning if i really want to get married or even be in a relationship with him. Relationships are tough and I am not sure if i'm up for the challenge...then again, being separated is a challenge and i'm not sure if i'm ready to handle that headache either. How does one know that the person they are with is "'the one" and not have any doubt? Is there always doubt and then you get used to it? I mean, how do you know for sure you arent going to be inlove with someone else a year from now?

Vanessa - posted on 12/13/2010

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Im married. Have 2 daughters. First one 8yrs.-adapted and a baby 6 months-mine today.

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