Carla - posted on 05/06/2010 ( 9 moms have responded )
I am not look for pity i am looking for a reason an answer. When i was young i hated guys who just leave there pregnant girls because they cant handle the responsibility. And now i am 29 and in the same . Why does the male population think that its ok. why are men irresponsible i have these question i just do not understand. they first are willing to put out ( in matter of speaking) to a girl second without being responsible enough for them self or the woman third does not care the outcome of his actions.
it not a question that i will hide him hes gone no where to be found i wanted him a pat of her life and i used to send pictures and talk with him once a month then he just shut the phone moved and right now who knows. i wasn't trying to dog out men its just frustrating because i have no idea how to explain when she has questions. hes not mean or horrible but just escaped from the world. I know so many single woman with babies and i hear there stories and they say so much. I would never hold out on her i always tell her even at this age her daddy loves her but can not be with us. My biggest fear is she blames me for him not being here. and its not he left me before i even knew i was pregnant and when i told him he didn't care