Candis - posted on 02/05/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )
so i have a 3 year old little boy who just recently became a big brother! hes cute as a button and for everyone else he is a perfect angle also hes autistic not that that matters much but because of it he has ceertain behavior quirks anyway when hes with me however he is completly out of control he doesnt listen he hits he bits he screams and does that melting thing so you cant take him any where he runs away and a couple of times has run out in the middle of the street im afraid both for him and sometimes of him he's completly out of control i spank him i put him in the corner i explain things to him and all it ever does is seem to make things worse im trying this one time dicipline thing but to get them yoused to it the steps you have to take seem almost abusive and being a child of abuse myself im very sensitive to that. at other times he can be so sweet and cuddly hes my bugaboo but hes never been this bad its a hassle to take him anywhere shoot its a hassle just to get him dressed anymore and on top of that i have a new baby a new job and im just starting to go backto colledge agian. his father and i switch off and on every two weeks but thats pretty new and not going so good his father wont dicipline him wont take any part in his raising and acts like davey is an inconvieacnece all the time so tomorrow im telling him davey will not be going over there any more if he wants to visit him then he can come to our house. hes never even bought davey a single present till this christmas he bought him a tonka truck! so basicly im frusterated im at wits end and i just dont know where to turn from here any advice?