going to the park

Erin - posted on 08/07/2009

I have taken my daughter to the park a couple of times, and she loves it! She does try to play with other kids, but they don't want anything to with her. I think at this age some children are ready for socialization and others are not. But she keeps trying, so I think it's a positive experience for her overall.

Cindi - posted on 07/28/2009

I take my twin girls to the park all the time but they really do not interact with others at all. Most of their play at this age is independent as far as I can tell. Have you tried any playgroups where you might know the moms or get to know them? that might help.

Tiffany - posted on 07/27/2009

I take James to the park but we always go with his older cousin. I think getting involved with a play group sounds like a good idea. That way she can get used to the same children. We got one started just by asking friends if they had any friends with kids the same age as ours. It just grew from there.

Marcia - posted on 07/23/2009

I agree with Chelsea...I think it really depends on the place and the other Mom's...I have been pretty lucky like her and find when you are in a setting (ex. a playgroup) most of the people are there for the same reason and they want their little ones to play together so they are more laid back....in other situations I've run into the same issue that you have had...usually for Mom's who want to pull their children away I just try to respect that, but kind of feel sorry for the children. My guy is kind of a combination of outgoing and shy (usually shy at first, but then gets into the mix after a few minutes), but he has always loved attention of other little ones and seeing them frolic.

Hope the other Moms in your park chill out a little bit and your little girl doesn't get too discouraged!

Teresa - posted on 07/23/2009

We do go to the park or beach sometimes. Especially w/ having 2 big sisters. :) It's totally normal for kids to not really interact w/ each other much at this age. They start playing near each other, but not really w/ each other yet (in general, of course).

Mschelseamac - posted on 07/21/2009

I know in my area (Millwoods, Edmonton Alberta) there are groups offered through Family Resource Centre's and the public health groups where Parents and children go for walks to parks and let their kids play together. They're all there for the same reason so it seems more laid back.



There are also indoor playgroups on a daily basis at the rec centre here. It's $2.50 per child and it's about 4hours in the morning.



It's great your daughter is social, but I know my Son is just about the opposite. He likes watching other kids from affar and normally hides on my lap. Now and then he has a social moment and wanders over to make friends. Really kids are kids and they're all so little and have had different levels of socialization so I just wouldn't worry or think too much about that.



As for parents who move their kids away when they try to play with yours, I've had the same experience at several places. I know many other Mother's who have as well. I just think of them as overprotective and let it go.