My sons ghost experiences..has anyone else been through this?
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Nicky - posted on 07/15/2012
Most people won't believe until they have their own experience. I've always believed since I was a little girl, because i've had experiences myself. Now my kids do to. Mostly my 4 yr old but I've been dealing with it with him since he was 1. So I new what he was saying to me was real, even if no one else believed me and thought I was crazy. There are things that happen that you just can not explain. Some people will try to make excuses for whats causing things to happen and some people know what it really is.My boyfriend doesnt like to hear about my sons experiences because he believes if you acknowledge the spirits or whatever it may be that it will just make them more active.
Ryan - posted on 07/08/2012
OK. This is going to sound crazy. I have never really believed in this kind of stuff. In my line of work, I encountered a child who has been terribly abused and she acts as if she is possessed my demons. One of my friends told me to be careful about eye contact with her and bringing something home. I thought they were all crazy. THEN my 4 year old told me she saw someone in the house with foggy skin and eyes that had no color looking at her. She also said the person had a vagina. Her words. I told my assistant at work, who is a minister. He came to my house and blessed and annointed it with oil. He told us to leave bibles open to the 23rd Psalm in the house. There was another incident after that, so he gave me some oil. He told me to put it on the kids' foreheads before bed. So, at night we read the 23rd Psalm and I put oil on their heads. Everyone thinks I'm crazy. I don't attend church, but it really was scary. Made me a believer!
Denikka - posted on 06/06/2012
I would personally say that it's something connected to you, not an object. Especially if it's something that's followed you all your life.
With the TV incident that you described, I just want to say, ALWAYS trust your gut. If you have the passing thought to check on your son, do it! No matter what you're doing, go and check. You would never forgive yourself if you thought to check on him, didn't, and something did happen. This has no bearing on anything supernatural. Even mundane things can happen. It's the best advice I ever got from anyone about anything and I pass it on as frequently as I can.
I would definitely recommend the cleansing. Aim it at harmful spirits if you are okay with the harmless stuff.
Nicky - posted on 06/05/2012
I believe in it all. I have also had experiences since ive been about 3 yrs old and still continue to. It just scares me when my son tells me he see's a scary man with black eyes watching him. In my old apt I believed the entity in the apt was a small child because of the toys in my sons crib and also I had seen it twice and my boyfriend seen it once. He thought my son had gotten out of bed but he was sound asleep. Also I found the blue beaded necklace. My sons toys would always go off & my older son used to say that the clothes hanging in his closet use to move. We have all had experiences some more then others but it has happened to us all. I've dealt with it since I was A small child and it used to scare me but no longer does, except sometimes when im home alone I feel very uneasy in our house that we bought. It just scares me now that my youngest son is now going through this. My boyfriend doesnt even want to know what goes on because it scares him. He doesnt say it does but he tells me he doesnt even wanna know. When he saw the ghost in my old apt it was when we first got together and he said if he seen it again he was never coming over ever again. IDK if whatever it is has followed us here because I brought the necklace or maybe its someone connected to me or my family and thats why its now bothering my youngest child and also me. Two nights ago my boyfriend was upsatirs sleeping and I was watching t.v downstairs.. I decided I was going to check on my lil guy then go to bed, so I shut the t.v off and as soon as I walked into my sons bedroom the livingroom tv came back on..it was creepy but im used to it. It was like something was trying to stop me from going in my sons rooom by distracting me by turning my tv back on.
Denikka - posted on 06/04/2012
Sounds like something needs to be done. I would suggest starting with a cleansing. How you do it depends on your belief system. You can do a smudging, have a priest come in and bless the house, or do it yourself. There are a number of crystals and herbs that can help too.
If you are open to such things, there are also spells/chants/prayers/whatever you want to call them that may help. One that has worked well for me is this:
Visualise yourself surrounded with glowing light. You can do this around just you, you and someone you're with, even your whole house. This light is a barrier. You must believe that nothing will get through it. Then, while visualizing, chant: Cast this spell in the fire, cast it well, weave it higher; weave it now of shining flame, none shall come to hurt or main; none shall pass this fiery wall, none shall pass, no, none at all.
You can get your son to do it himself, or you can do it for both of you.
Whatever is going on, whether it's real to us or not, it's real to your son. Along with supernatural remedies, I would also suggest that you bring him in to a doctor to be evaluated. It may be some form of hallucination.
Don't make a big deal of it, but don't discount what he's saying either. Don't let him feed off your fear, but let him know that you believe him and that you'll do your best to deal with it.
And whatever you do, do NOT go looking for whatever it is!!! Do NOT try an EVP session. Do NOT hold a seance or use a ouijji board. Do not try talking to whatever it is. Ignore it as much as possible. Tell your son to do the same. When he says he sees someone, tell him to ignore them and not talk to them. Tell him that they are like strangers, we don't talk to strangers, no matter how nice they may seem. Don't frighten him, but be firm.
I firmly believe that there are other...things...out there. Some are nice, some are not. And you never know which is which until it's too late. I believe these things draw what power you give to them. If you believe they are real, if you talk to them, acknowledge them, fear them, they draw on that. And I believe that if they know that you can see them, know that you can hear them, feel them, then more will come.
This may be a gift that you want to encourage, I don't know. But as with any gift, it can have its dangers too. Whether you are okay with it or not, the first order of things is to learn to protect yourself.
All I can say is good luck. I'm sure everything will turn out just fine :)
Nicky - posted on 06/04/2012
I couldn't make a post so i'll tell the story here. This whole thing started when he was 1 yr old in my old apt. I've been dealing with this for 3 years now and its getting worse and I dont know what to do. I apologize but this is going to be a long post but I need to know if anyone else has been through this. I will start from the beginning. When he was 1 he woke up at 3 am pointing in his closet where his toys were. So I thought he wanted to play so I layed him back down. At 6am he woke up crying again and this time when I got to his bdrm I found his crib full of toys. To this day I can't explain how they got there. In my old apt alot of crazy things would happen. T.V's would turn off on their own. My little hand held dirt devil would turn on by itself while on the charger. My stereo turned on at 3 am blasting music..it woke everyone up. One morning when I woke up (I was home alone and have been all night) I went into my dining room and there was a little girls blue beaded necklace on my chair. I've never seen it before & also can't explain where it came from, But I kept it..I still have it to this day. We have moved and my sons experiences are getting worse. When we first moved in my son was 2 1/2 he would say he saw a silly ghost in the bathroom & also in the kitchen. When he was 3 and up to now he has told me multiple times he has seen something come out of the wall outside of his bdrm door he said " It floated out of the wall and it had no feet mommy & it just looked at me" I've heard this from him many times. Most recently he has been talking about a scary man. The first time he mentioned this man was when he was with his nana outside playing. He told her there was a scary man watching him play and she asked him where & he showed her..she said there was nothing there. He says he see's him in his room at night all the time. One night he called me to his room. When I got there I asked him what he needed He said he see's the scary man. I said where is he..and he says "he's standing right where you are mommy" it was scary. He speaks of this man all the time this is an almost everyday thing now and thats why I said it had gotten worse. He called me in his room at 3 am this morning telling me he saw a shadow person outside of his door. I'm just not sure what to do. I don't know what to say to him except it will be ok. About 3 weeks ago I woke up to my son who is 4 now crying at the bottom of my stairs to my bdrm. He said he saw something scary come out of his closet then it went under his bed then out to the living room where he said he followed it and then it dissapeared. I just dont know what to do. Has anyone else experienced these things? Please help me!