Danielle - posted on 05/24/2011 ( 11 moms have responded )
I have one surviving child, my little girl was beating out of me while pregnant with her, during my attempts of saving my 6 month son, from his bio. dad from setting us on fire,and beating us. I haven't gone to my daughters grave since i've barried her b/c my son, doesn't understand why mommy cries at a rock. He's 2 years old and doesn't know who his real dad is, I've recently been married for 10 months now, my husband is amazing he's leagally adopted my son you can't tell they aren't blood they almost look alike in a scary way...lol. So is it wrong if i never tell my son about his real bastard of a father, or keep him happy with the real daddy he knows and loves. or Tell him the man that's suppose to love him rather him dead and tried to do it. I feel like i'm winning the worlds worst mom's award, Can't visit my daughter's grave, nor do i want my son to know the heartache we suffered to get where we are today.It hurts of knowing will my son hate me for not telling him? need suggestions.