Lia - posted on 06/30/2010 ( 5 moms have responded )
Dear moms... My marriage started 1.5 years ago. at that time, i lived at my in law house and i've been in trouble to adapted to my hubby's parent (both of them!) and it's getting worse when i get pregnant. The first bad thing happen when i get spot in my 4weeks pregnancy. i got panic and crying to my hubby but then my MIL came ad told me to shut up without even try to ask what happen. i got so mad and leave, i moved to my parents house right away.
The other problem happen at my baby shower, my MIL promise to organize and prepare all the needs for the baby shower, but when the time comes she just called me in the morning and said " sorry i can make it to your baby shower, i've been very busy so Good luck" i try to calm down and ask her what should i prepare? she reply" i don't know anything about baby shower, since mine is prepared and organized by my mother in law". can't you imagine?
My husband is not helping me either, because he ask me to go back to his parent house after giving birth. of course i refuse. but this make my father in law mad at me and Just 1 month before my due date he ask all his investment in my hubby's design firm back and the reason is because he want to buy new car ( he already got 2 !) this make my hubby short in cash till now. and i got very depressed, i have to give birth 3 weeks before my due date at cheap hospital.
Now they said that they are very proud of their grand son (my son is very cute compare to their other grandchildren) and my MIL keep give me expensive branded baby things such stroller, car seat, shoes etc. because she want to show off my son to her friends. it's hurt me so much because they still didn't want to help his son's business and now i can declare my self bankrupt and decided to move to other city and back to work (back to my last job).
My only concern is my son, i cant stand to live near my In law any more but my husband cant leave his firm either. is this condition (separate my son from his father) can cause a bad effect to my son? thanks for the advice