Ashley - posted on 02/28/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )
My husband has been in for over 6 years now and HATES his MOS. He dicided he wants to lat move and has his heart set on one MOS imparticular. I've always told him that we would support his decisions no matter what but the MOS he has chosen has a serious potential to split up our family. We have been going through a rough patch in our marrige so adding this on top of everything would be disasterous! He asked me what I thought and what I wanted him to do but I never gave him an answer. I don't want to split our family up but I know how much this would mean to him and if the roles were reversed he would support any career decision I made. So, do I tell him my concerns which would lead him to completely count out that MOS and devistate him, or do I just suck it up and do my best to support him and keep our family intact? I'm at a loss...